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THE INCONSISTENCY OF CONFORMITY
TO THIS WORLD.
U B. SBSLBT AND SONS, WBSTON OBBBN, THAMBS DITTON.
THE INCONSISTENCY OF CONFORMITY
TO THIS WORLD WITH A
PROFESSION OF CHRISTIANITY,
ILLUSTRATED
IN THREE DIALOGUES.
BY THOMAS T. BIDDULPH, A. M.
MINISTSR OF ST. JAMB8*S, BRISTOL, AND OP OURSTON, IN
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DIALOGUE I.
MISS NEWMAN.
Good morniDgy Mrs. Dormer; I am glad to
find that you are able to take advantage of this
fine day after your late indisposition.
MRS. DORMER.
I thank you^ Miss Newman, I am much
better than I was, when you so kindly &voured
me with a call ; and this clear morning seems to
brace my nerves and cheer my spirits, which
have suffered by my long confinement. Pray
how is your neighbour, Mrs* PMlmund ? for I
hear that she has been ill as well as I.
B
2 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
MISS NEWMAN.
Yes; she has been very unwell indeed; but
I am happy to inform you that she is much
better. She is a woman of a very amiable tem-
per; but I wish I could see more spirituality
of mind in her. I indulged a hope that this
indisposition (since affliction is the frequent
means which our heavenly Father employs for
the cure of our spiritual maladies) would have
produced a salutary effect ; and have proved
as beneficial to her soul as the prescriptions
of Dv. Pearson have done to her body.
MRS. DORMER.
But why, Miss Newman, do you express so
much solicitude about Mrs. Philmund's state
9f mind ? Have you heard any thing that
reflects disgrace on her moral character ? I
have long observed with pleasure the constancy
of her attendance on the ministry of the Grospel ;
a,nd that, not only on thie Lord's day, but also
at our weekly lecture. I have found by con-
versation with her, tbat her nund is well in-
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 3
formed, and that her views are evangelical. I
am also assured that an altar for God is erected
in her house, where she has family- prayer morn-
ing and evening ; and when I have called on
her, the Bible has lain on her table, which I
supposed she had been reading. If a judgment
may be formed from occasional intercourse with
the young ladies, her daughters, she has taken
great pains with them, and devoted much of her
time to them; for their conversation, though
sprightly, is sensible, and frequently tinctured
with a religious hue. Mrs. Philmund*s charities
seem -to bear a proportion to her income ; and
when she cannot relieve, she always pities cir-
cumstances of distress, wishing that her means
were larger, that she might have the pleasure
of more diffusive benificence. '
MISS NEWMAN.
All this is true and much more of the same
kind ; which made me say that Mrs. Philmund
is a very amiable woman. The traits of her
^ See note A. in Appendix.
B 2
4 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
character which you have mentionedy have won
my esteem to a great degree ; and thence arose
the wish I just now expressed when you inquired
after her. That wish, I can assure you, was not
uttered in a spirit of censoriousness, nor was it
the result of a proud self-righteous disposition ;
for I do not know one individual in the cata-
logue of my acquaintance, at whose feet I cannot
sit, knowing myself to be less than the least of
all saints ; if indeed the name of a saint can»
with any propriety, be applied to one so un-
worthy of divine favour as I am. But my dear
Mrs. Dormer well knows that one thing is need*
/ul ; and that this one thing is a spirituality
of mind, which, though it may vary in its degree
of perfection, is a certain consequence of a true
conversion to God: for to be camally^minded
is death ; hut to be spiritualfy'minded is life and
peace. '
* Rom. viii. 6.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 5
MRS. DORMER.
All this is certainly true, and built on the
plainest declarations of the Holy Scriptures.
But why should my dear Miss Newman suspect
Mrs. Philmund of being so very defective in this
comprehensive feature of the Christian charac«
ter ? With respect to the spirituality of mind
and will which the law of Grod peremptorily
demands, we are all, even the most devoted
among us, very defective ; for in reviewing the
extensive scope and inflexible nature of the
divine law, as requiring truth in the inward
partita ^ even St. Paul acknowledged, / am
camaii sold under mh, and exclaimed, O,
wretched man that I ami who shall deliver me
from the body' of this death f *
MISS NEWMAN.
But you will observe that the apostle aho
says. That which I do^ I allow not : for what
I would, that do I not; but what I bate, that
» Psalm li; 6. ^ Rom. yij, i4»-24.
THE INCONSISTENCY OF CONFORMITY
TO THIS WORLD.
8 ON THE INCONSHTENCY OF
sipation of which she is voluntarily a frequent
witness, are calculated to carnalize the affections,
and depress that^elevation of soul which is the
characteristic of a child of Grod, and which'is
maintained with great difficulty, without any
exterior obstacles, through the constant tendency
of our innate corruption to its own centre of
attraction.-^I speak in general terms on the
subject through a sense of delicacy ; — there is
no need of descending to particulars.
MRS. DORMER.
I clearly understand you. But do not your
views lead to unnecessary preciseness and an
offensive particularity of conduct ?
Miss NEWMAN.
Young and inexperienced as I am, I feel
really afraid to speak on a subject, concerning
which the practice of a great, many respectable
professors runs counter to the convictions of my
mind. — I allow that the views I have stated lead
COMFORMITT TO TUB WORLD. 9
to a particularity of conduct which is offensive
to the worlds becaiMC it condemns them ; and to
the god of this worlds because it is hostile to
the interests of his kin^^om : but not offenHve^
I think, to H1M9 who says of all his disciples^
They are not of the worlds even as I am not of
the world; and who tells them, that therefore
the world wiU hate them : * nor, I should sup*
pose» to those among his professing followers,
who have set their affections on things above^
where Christ sitteth at the right hand of God. ^
MRS. DORMER.
Would you wish, my dear Miss Newman,
that our friend Mrs, Philmund should banish .
herself and her daughters from society ? that
she should exclude them from all company ?
or that they should never be seen except at
church ? Would not this be the part of an
unkind parent, and prejudicial in its conse-
quences to their future conduct and respect-
ability in life?
* John xvii. 14. » Col. iii. 1, 2.
10 OM THE INCONSISTENCY OF
MISS NEWMAN.
I reasoDy Mrs. Dormer, oa the supposition
that a Christian is to make the unseen realities
of a future world his grand scope ; ^ and that
every thing in this world is to be appreciated
by its connection with eternity. If I am wrong
in my principle of action, do tell me. But to
answer your questions, I verily think that young
women in the present age are by far too much
in public company ; and that thereby many of
them become forward, petulant, and loquacious,
to the utter destruction of that skamefacedness
and sobriety 9^ which the apostle mentions as
the highest ornament of the female sex. To
read a lecture on education, however, is not my
province ; and your questions may be answered^
without adverting to that subject. For we are
highly &voured in having so many families
among us which profess godliness, with whom
we may maintain a friendly and a profitable
intercourse ; so that there is no necessity of our
1 2 Cor. iv. 18. « 1 Tim. ii. 9.
' See note B. in Appendix.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 11
seclusion froin all society, on the one band ; nor
of seeking it, to the clanger of our peace, and the
hinderance of our growth in the divine life, on
the other. And therefore, though no plea can
excuse a voluntary intrusion of ourselves into
worldly company ; yet our choice of it is more
inexcusable than theirs who are differently
situated, and must either bury themselves in
absolute privacy, or plunge themselves into
temptation.
MRS. DORMER.
But may not Mrs. Philmund innocently com-
ply with the inclinations of her children ? You
know that her daughters, at least some of them,
make no profession of religion. And would you
debar them from all the amusements, which are
suited to their age and situation ?
MISS NEWMAN.
The conduct of my own honoured and be-
loved parents, in the management of me and
12 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
my sister, appears to me to exhibit a model
worthy of imitation. It is only within a very
few years, as you must remember, that I have
found that satisfaction in religion which renders
the pleasures and vanities of the world insipid
and its society disgusting. Antecedent to the
time from which, I hope, I may date my con-
version to God, I felt as many other young
persons feel, a powerful attraction to those
scenes of vanity of which I had heard by report ;
though my parents (gratefully do I recall to
memory the kind restraint !) had wisely kept
me from any experimental acquaintance with
them. While, however the piety of those, to
whom I looked up as vested with an unlimited
right of controling and directing my conduct,
prohibited my introduction to places of amuse-
ment and the haunts of sinful gratification ;
they made it manifest that they were not in-
fluenced in their conduct by any motive but the
promotion of my good ; for they afforded me
every mean of innocent and profitable amusement
which their circumstances would admit ; and
endeavoured, by degrees, as I was capable of
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 13
receiving instructiony to lead my inind, in my
juvenile studies, from nature to nature's God.
By these efforts my heart, though it sometimes
hankered after forbidden diversions, of which it
scarcely knew the nature, was kept, in general,
satisfied without them ; and though as yet I
knew not God, my engagements were such as
rather tended to habituate my mind to the
contemplation and love of his name, and not to
alienate it from him. From one species of study
which my father proposed, and at which I
eagerly caught as a new object, I derived a
considerable degree of pleasure and profit. Ever
anxious to engage my attention to something
useful, he one day said to me, ^^ My dear Ann,
a knowledge of the word of God is the most
sublime and valuable acquisition we can make.
It is essential to our present comfort and future
happiness. Under this impression your mother
«nd I, solicitous for your welfare here and here-
after, have endeavoured to instil into your mind,
and into that of our dear Eliza, the principles
of Christianity. You are both tolerably well
instructed in the historical parts of the Bible ;
14 OM THB INCONSISTENCY OF
and I am looking forward to the time, when I
hope God will enlighten your minds, and cap-
tivate your aiFections, by the doctrinal and
preceptive parts of it. To afford you an experi-
mental introspection of its interior mysteries, is
beyond our power : this must be derived from
divine teachings which we daily solicit from
heaven on your behalf. In the interval I could
wish your time to be employed, and your facul-
ties exercised in a way that may be preparatory
thereto : and with this view, I propose to your
consideration an attempt of acquiring some
knowledge of the primaeval language, in which
the first Scriptures were written. You will find
the pursuit both amusing and profitable. There
are charms in the language which God himself
taught our first parents in Paradise, Vwhich no
language derived therefrom (as all other lan-
guages are) can possibly possess. At present I
cannot explain to you the admirable peculiari-p
ties, by which it is distinguished from every
thipg of human invention.^ But, if you consent
* See note C. in Appendix.
^ See Rev. Wm. Jones's Letter to the Hon. L, K. on the
CONFORBfITT TO THB WORLD. 15
to my proposal we shall be enabled^ as we go
OD, to shed more light. on,; the subject; and if
you find the employment wearisome, we can
desist whenever we please. I obtained, without
the help of a master, when young, a superficial
knowledge of the sacred tongue; which I shall
be glad to increase for my own benefit, while I
am helping you; though, indeed, the acqui-
sition of the language is now so facilitated by
Mr. Parkhurst's excellent grammar and lexicon,
that the assistance of a roaster is by no means
necessary to the student who is really desirous of
attaining his proposed object, i And therefore,
since my time is much employed, as you know,
iamy business, you will be able to proceed with
littlC) or even no help from me.'' — Pleased with
the novelty of the proposal, my sister and I im-
mediately went to work with my father's books :
and thus our time was prevented from hanging
heavily on our hands. And since the period
when it pleased God to open my understanding
to understand the Scriptures^ and to reveal to my
Use of the Hebrew Language^ in the 12th volume of his
works. ^ See note D. in Appendix.
16 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
soul by his Spirit the great salvation which they
display ; I look back on the hours I employed
in acquiring a little knowledge of the Hebrew
tongue with a kind of satisfaction, which a
recollection of those spent in the study of music,
drawing, and the French language^ by no means
afford ; for though the latter attainments may
be of some small use to me in the present world,
the former will be of advantage to me in prepar-
ing for the world to come. ^ — I am afraid I shall
weary you with my detail of parental attentions
(a subject of which I am never tired) ; or I
would mention another scheme devised for the
purpose of keeping our minds employed and
of improving our hearts, without those time-
killing and ensnaring amusements, which are
now. so fashionable; and of which, I am sorry to
observe, that even professing parents do not see
the evil.
* See note E. in Appendix.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 1?
MRS. DORMER.
My dear Ann, I am so interested in your
narrativey especially with a view to my own do-
mestic charge, that I shall derive great pleasure
from your further effusions of filial gratitude.
MISS NEWMAN.
My dear mother, knowing the importance
of bodily exercise to the preservation of health,
and that a variety of employments is essential to
the amusement of young persons, used to take
me and my sister with her, in her morning
excursions to the neighbouring cottages. There
our sensibilities were excited by the objects
of distress which pressed on our attention, and
the tenderness of our hearts was roused to exer-
tion on their behalf. Our benevolent wishes
were readily encouraged by our dear parents,
in whom the needy and miserable always find
a warm friend ; and we were supplied with ma«*
terials of clothing; and, like Dorcas of old,
employed in making them up. While we were
18 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
thus engaged, no opportunity was lost of kindling
in our bosoms a sense of gratitude for the
advantages we enjoyed, nor of infixing on our
mipds the only a^iswer which can be given to the
apostolic questions. Who maketh thee to differ
from qnother? md^ What hast thou that thou
didst not receive?^ Often were our young
minds disgusted at the expensive gratifications
of the world ; and made to abhor those means
of dissipating money on vain or sensual amuse-
ments which are so common, while these scenes
of paisery were presented to our view, and im-
proved by the wise and well-timed admonitions
of Q\KX excellent parents. — I ^^^uld proceed;
but I shall fatigue you, Mrs. Dormer, with n^y
^arrft^ion.
MRS. DORMER.
You will not, indeed ; do go on.
* i Cor. iv, 7.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 19
MISS NEWMAN.
Thus, then, my dear madam, did our time
insensibly slide on, till I was about twenty years
of age, and my dear sister Eliza about eighteen.
At this period of my life it pleased God, in his
great mercy, to afflict me with a fit of sickness,
which threatened my life. My dear parents,
whose prayers for the conversion of their chil-
dren had before been incessant, were now more
importunate on my behalf; and, doubtless, in
answer their entreaties, some truly religious im-
pressions were made on my heart. I began tQ
think of the state of my soul ; to feel its innate
sinfulness ; and to discover that a religious edu-
cation, and a preservation from vicious practices,
would not be su£Scient to entitle me to a seat
in heaven. Though accustomed to bend my
knees morning and evening at my bed-side, I
had never prayed till now, when I began to feel
my need of Christ, and the necessity of a change
of heart. My aifectionate parents watched and
cherished these hopeful symptoms with holy
delight; but expressed their fear, lest, on my
C 2
20 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
recovery, which now began to take place, their
hopes should end in disappointment. When
my state of convalescence was considerably
advanced, I began to look forward to the
approaching Sabbath with emotions unknown
before; expecting to derive from the ministry
of Mr. Fidel, to which my parents were so
much attached, that pleasure and advantage to
which I had hitherto been a stranger. When
the long- wished- for day arrived, I was suffi-
ciently recovered to be able to resume my seat
in the house of God : but, oh ! with what
different sensations from any which had ever
before arisen in my mind. The sermon seemed
to be wholly and exclusively addressed to me ;
and I trust I may say without presumption,
that the Gospel was the power of God to the
salvation^ of my lost soul. From this time
forward those things, from which I had before
been restrained by parental authority (to which,
from a sense of duty, I always felt it right to
submit) became insipid and even irksome to me.
My sources of enjoyment are new. In the
1 Rom.i. 16.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. ^1
company of God's people, among whom redeem-
ing love 18 the subject of conversation, I find
real satisfaction ; but in the company of the
trifling giddy children of this world,^ I am out
of my element. I feel pity for them, long for
the interview to be at an end, and return thank-
ful to my closet for the redemption Jrom this
present evil world,^ which I hope I have expe-
rienced. — Now I think, my dear madam, that
my little history demonstrates the possibility,
if proper means be adopted, of amusing young
people without suffering them to mix in those
defiling and degrading vanities, from which
none escape uninjured. And, on the sanction
which the example of my own dear parents
(with me oracular) gives to the sentiment, I am
folly satisfied that it is a parent's duty to
restrain those under his charge, while they con-
tinue so, from every scene of temptation into
which inexperienced youth would heedlessly
plunge.
1 Luke xvi. 8. - Gal. i. 4.
2S ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
MRS. DORMER.
Though the termination of our morning's
walk interrupts our conversation for the present,
I hope soon to resume it with you. For though
I am fully satisfied with the goodness of your
intentions, and the uprightness of your heart $
I am not clear that, in the ardour of your zeal,
you have not been carried too far in your views
of that separation from the world, which is suit-
able to the Christian character^ If you can
convince me that you are rights I shall feel it
my duty to take a liberty, which iny intimacy
with Mrs. Philmund will justify; and fulfil
your wish by speaking to her concerning that
part of her conduct which so much grieves you.
Will you walk in and rest yourself?
MISS NEWMAN.
I thank you ; the walk home is but short,
and my mother will wonder what is become
of me.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 23
MRS. DORMER.
Grood tnorniDg, Miss 'Newman, and thank
you for your company.
MISS NEWMAN.
Madam, good morning.
24 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
A few days after the conversation detailed in
the preceding Dialogue had taken place. Miss
Newman, taking her sister Eliza with her, called
on Mrs. Dormer. For her mind had been deeply
concerned for the honour of God, and for the
spiritual welfare of her friends, Mrs. Philmund
and Mrs. Dormer ; the latter of whom' she was
surprised to find concurring in sentiment and
practice with the former. She determined,
therefore, while she felt all the timidity natural
to her sex, and was conscious of her disqualifi-
cation, in consequence of her youth, for debating
the momentous point with a person so much
older than herself ; that, as so fair an opportunity
was afforded her of bearing her testimony to
the truth, it should not be lost. After earnest
prayer, and a serious examination of her Bible,
in which she turned down those passages which
appeared to support her cause, she was com-
forted by recollecting the story of David and
Goliah.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 25
DIALOGUE II.
MISS NEWMAN.
You see, my dear madam, that I have taken
a very early opportunity of calling on you ; to
which I have been encouraged by the kind atten-
tion which you showed me during our walk on
Monday.
MRS. DORMER.
My dear Miss Newman, I am truly glad to
see you.. Pray be seated. I have been rather
uneasy, since the interview of the day you have
just mentioned, thinking that you carry your
religious preciseness to an unreasonable extent.
26 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
MISS NEWMAN.
I am truly sorry, madam, to incur your dis-
approbation by any thing I have advanced ; and
shall be ready to receive correction from you,
if I have erred. That I may be led in the right
way is my daily prayer to God; especially as
I am aware how prone I am, through youth and
inexperience, to go astray.
MRS. DORMER.
In the further prosecution of our itiquiry into
the conduct which Christian believers are obliged
to observe with respect to worldly connections,
I must beg leave to premise, that I do not plead
for any immoral practices, nor for the devotion
of too much time to any amusements whatever.
I allow also that the playhouse is a sink of
impurity, and a school of proluheness ; ^ and
acknowledge that some persons wbste tob much
time in friendly visits. I do not, however, see
any harm in taking a cup of tea occasionally
^ See note F. in Appendix.
CONFORBtitT TO THE WORLD. 2?
with my neighbours, though they do not think
with me On religioilB matters ; nor that any evil
can result to tne from such intercourse with
them. And if a card-table on these occasions
be introd needy a song, or a dance proposed
(though I Neither play cards, sing, not dance
myself), my conscience is not rendered uneasy
thereby ; nor do I feel myself under any neces-
sity of shortening my visit, or declining a repeti-
tion of it. I do not petreive any breach of the
divine law, nor any thing contrary to the spirit
of a Christian^ in an occasional concurrence with
these innocent amusements.
MISS NEWMAN.
With all due deference to your superior age
and judgment, I must beg leave to say, that
I differ from you in opinion. For if I were
obliged to be present where a company of rational
and immortal beings, standing on the very brink
of eternity, were so employed (a trial from which,
I thank God, my father's character and connec-
tions wholly exempt me), I should be very
^
28 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
miserable. For, believing in a future state, and
realising the nearness of death and a judgment
to come, with the truths of Scripture before my
eyes, could I contemplate the situation of such
triflers with the precious season of probation for
eternity, without feeling the most pungent appre-
hensions On their account ? The pain, which a
conviction of their danger must produce, would
surely prove a bar to all enjoyment ; even though,
through the necessity of the case, I should feel
no guilt arising from my own presence in such
a scene of folly. Either I must^ on such an
occasion, have the moments embittered by a
sight of my fellow-creatures standing on the
brink of the grave without any regard to eter-
nity or the needful preparation for it ; or I must
sink into the same spirit of inconsideration and
levity with them. Either alternative is most
anxiously to be avoided. — The general opinion,
my dear madam, of the Lord's people is to be
treated with respect, and not to be rejected
without very full proof of its fallacy. Now you
know that the concurring voice of those who
have been most eminent for their attachment to
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 29
the cause of Christ, has borae an united testi-
mony against these recreations. You know also
that many an humble child of God is grieved to
hear of a fellow-professor, who yields to the
practice of them. And surely, if no inconsis-
tency with the Christian character were thereto
annexed, the determination of St. Paul in
another case may well be imitated by us in this ;
I will eaty says he, no Jlesh while the world
standethy if thereby I make my brother to offends
This apostolic resolution was an instance of real
self-denial; but an abstinence from the things
you have mentioned as innocent, in order to
avoid offending the weakest of Christ's flock,
even supposing that their views originate in pre-
judice, can hardly be dignified with the same
appellation. <
MRS. DORMER.
But the advocates of innocent amusements,
as they are called, will still ask, with a tone of
the utmost confidence in the goodness of their
' 1 Cor. viii. 13. ^ See also Matt, xviii, 6.
30 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
Cfiuse, " What harm is there in them ? Are
they apy where prohibited in the divine law ?
And i£ not, must pot a refusal of joining in
them be the effect of sanctimonious pride ? "
MISS NEWMAN.
These, and other such like questions, on
account of the frequency of their proposal, the
plausibility of their appearance, and the air of
importance with whjch they are brought forward,
require an explicit reply, though their futility
would otherwise consign them to conten^pt.
MRS. DORMER.
Do let me hear what can be said in answer to
them ; for I own I am at a loss to conjecture.
What harm, for instance, can there be in the
exercise, or diversion, of dancing, and where is
it forbidden ?
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 31
MISS NEWMAN.
That the exercise, or diversion, of dancing
is no sin in itself, is readily acknowledged.
Action, at proper seasons, and in due naodera-
tion, is conducive, nay essential, to the health
of the body. But the frequenters of nocturnal
balls have no such defence to make ; and their
practice is as hostile to the health of their
bodies, as to that of their souls. Many persons
hav^ been guilty of unintentional suicide, by
going half-covered with thin attire to a revel,
called an asseqibly ; and then, in the middle of
the night, with heated blood and pores opened
by violent exercise, exposing themselves to the
damp and chilling air of the winter season. On
this topic let the physician be consulted, and
the increase of pulmonary diseases be well con-
sidered. Leaving the frequent injury of bodily
health occasioned by these amusements out of
the question, since no one will urge the promo-
tion of health as the inducement to them ; we will
contemplate them in their relation to morals,
and inquire how far they are conducive to purity
32 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
of heart and life, or hostile to it ; an inquiry,
surely, of the highest consequence, since /Aepure
in heart alone are blessed; and none, without
this qualification, can see Crod with comfort in
the great day,* We will admit that the sprightly
and active sports of children are an irregular
dance, and that a formal dance of adults is the
exercise of children reduced to rule ; and that
neither the one nor the other is in itself^ and in
its own nature, sinful. But, having admitted
this, we must ask, since the principle of any
branch of conduct either hallows or defiles it,-—
What are the circumstances which produce in
young people of either sex a love of this amuse-
ment ? Is not the intercourse of the sexes the
impelling motive for a fondness for it ? Is not the
ball-room, or even the scene of a more private
dance, a place of temptation to an infringement
of the divine law ? ^ If it be a scene of tempta-
1 Matt. V. 8.
^ Before this question is answered, let the seventh com-
mandment to be compared with our Lord's comment on it,
Matt. V. 28. The manner in which the apostle has ex-
pressed his exhortations, 1 Cor. vi. 18. and 2 Tim. ii. 22.
is worthy of notice. He does not say, Resist " youthfiil
CONFOaMITY TO THE WORLD. 33
tioD, could any one, while preparing to attend
it sincerely and devoutly offer up the Lord's
prayer? Is not the mode of ornamenting the
body on such occasions calculated and designed
to irritate the concupiscential passions of the
mind ? Can any honest cause be assigned for
the exuberance of exterior embellishment, and
the defect of decent clothing, * too generally
^opted in such places? Is not the desire of
exhibiting personal beauty, either possessed or
iiupposed to be possessed, another usual allure-
ment to this diversion ? And to what does such
an exhibition naturally tend ? And where nature
or age denies a claim of admiration on this
account, do not the decorations of dress supply
food for vanity and emulation ? And are not
vanity and emulation sinful emotions ? Is the
injunction of the apostle,^ That women adorn
themselves with modest apparel^ with shamefaced^
ness and sobriety^ not with broidered hairy or
goldf or pearlsy or costly array ^ but fas becometh
lusts," but Flee from them. To parley, is to be overcome :
wfety can only be insured by flight.
^ See note G. in Appendix. ^ 1 Tim. ii. 9.
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34 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
women professing godliness J with good works :
is this ever attended to by persons who frequent
the assembly-room ? What are the pomps and
vanities of this wicked world, which we have
solemnly promised and vowed before God and
man to renounce, if they are not to be found in
these circles of dissipation ? Let this question
be answered under a recollection that the pomps
and vanities, renounced in our baptismal vow,
are distinguished from the works of the devil
and those of the flesh, though too nearly related
to both.^ — Is it possible that the conversation
on these occasions should be, as a Christian's
conversation ought always to be, to the use of
edifying,^ — But I desist from asking any more
questions : let these, my dear Mrs. Dormer, be
seriously weighed, and surely it will appear that
an attendance on these fashionable assemblies
is, by an implication of consequences, unlawful ;
whether a person considers the peril to which
he exposes himself, or the sanction which his
presence gives to those scenes which expose
* See note H. in Appendix. - Eph, iv. 20. Rom. xv. 2.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 35
others to a danger of moral containination. If
any kind of food were found, by frequent ex-
periments, to be generally, if not universally
injurious to the human constitution, it would be
my duty and interest to avoid that species of
aliment, even though the whole college of
physicians had declared that they could dis*
cover no unwholesome properties in it.
MRS. DORMER.
Whatever may be said about balls and as-
semblies, the same objections cannot- be raised
against a quiet and friendly game of cards.
MISS NEWMAN.
Not exactly the same in all respects; but
I apprehend that others, equally cogent, may
without difficulty be started. In the mere act
of shuffling, cutting, and distributing a set of
square papers, differently spotted and distin-
guished, there is certainly no moral evil. * But
^ How much more rational would be the introduction
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t
is there no contrariety in it to the precept which
we have received to redeem the time ? * In the
desire of winning, is there no breach of the
commandment not to covet any thing that is our
neighbours^ f ^ From the success of a game, won
by superior skill, is there no danger of the
mind's being inflated with pride, while the less
of a book, or a philosophical apparatus, at our social
meetings ; if among persons called Christians, or persons
of any liberal education, conversation can be supposed to
fail of affording profit and amusement.
1 Eph. V. 16.
" Where is that thrift, that avarice of time,
(O glorious avarice ! ) thought of death inspires,
As rumour'd robberies endear our gold?
O Time ! than gold more sacred ; more a load
Than lead to fools ; and fools reputed wise.
What moment granted man without account !
What years are squandered, wisdom*s debt unpaid !
Our wealth in days all due to that discharge.
Haste, haste, he lies in wait, he's at the door.
Insidious death ; should his strong arm arrest.
No composition sets the prisoner free.
Eternity's inexorable chain
Fast binds, and vengeance claims the full arrear."
Vaufiff.
^ See note I. in Appendix,
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. ' 37
skilful or less fortunate opponent is subjected to
irritation by a mortification of his vanity ? The
interest in the game, necessary to render it an
amusement, and the fondness which is too gene-
rally discovered for it, will afford proof that
these questions are not futile, nor the dangers
to which they relate chimerical. Is there no
temptation to emulation^ wrath, or strife,^ the
proscribed works of the flesh, in a game of
cards ? Let the countenances of its amateurs,
while engaged in what is frequently by a mis-
nomer called amusement, answer the question.
Can it conduce to the improvement either of the
body or mind ? Is there nothing degrading to
the character of one who professes to have his
treasure in heaven, and his heart there also, as
every Christian does, in such an employment of
time and talents ? Above all, is there any man
living who would consent to be arrested by
death, at an unexpected and unguarded hour,
with the cards in his hands ? ^
^ Gal. v. 20. James iii. 14 — 16. Where envy and strife is,
there is cor^fusion and eveiy evil work.
^ See note K. in Appendix.
38 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
MRS. DORMER.
But unless the evil consequences which you
have described as resulting from the practices
of dancing and playing cards are necessarily
produced by them> your argument against them
will not be concluuve.
MISS NEWMAN.
I cannot, my dear Mrs. Dormer, allow the
truth of your inference : for it is to be observed
that, in our examination of the lawfulness of
dancing and card-playing (with which many
other vain amusements may be connected as im-^
plicating the same kind of guilt), we reason on
the axiom that man is a fallen and corrupted
creature; that in his natural or unconverted
state. Every imagination of the thoughts ((f his
heart is only evil continually;' and that
This infection of nature doth remain j yea^in them
that are regenerated^ whereby the lust ofthefiesh
^ Gen. vi. 5.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. d[)
■ " is not subject to the law of God ; and
that concupiscence and lust hath of itself the
nature of sin. ' From hence it appears that the
aeed of every vile affection is in the heart of
every one ; which needs only to be watered by
temptation, in order to occasion the production
of it» baneful fruits. That man has no proper
acquaintance with his own heart, nor with the
doctrines of the Bible, who does not know by
painful experience that his fallen heart is as in-
flammable as tinder, when it is brought into
contact with the weakest spark of temptation.
And, if this be admitted, the unlawfulness of
those scenes of vanity which have been mention-
ed, will be incontrovertible ; for to run needlessly
into temptaticHi (and there can be no necessary
call to visit the ball-room or the card-table) is
directly contrary to the gracious command of
our blessed Lord, Watch and pray^ that ye enter
nai into temptation ; ^ and to that of St. Paul,
See thai ye walk circumspectly^ or warily. The
people of the world, indeed, are like persons
1 IXth Article of the Church of England.
- Matt. xxvi. 41. ^ Eph. v. 15.
40 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
vrtko walk about id their sleep, unconscious of
danger. Most pitiable state ! But a Christian
is awakened out of his sleep ; and is supposed
to be alive to the dangers of the road in which
he is to walk, to the importance of his journey,
and to the necessity of circumspection and a
constant attention to the means of self- preser-
vation in pursuing it. To expose my bodily
life to any risk, without a necessity, or some
equivalent advantage to be attained by it (even
though a moiety of those who had before made
the experiment had escaped unhurt,) would be
very culpable, and a species of suicide : and,
surely, as the wages of sin is eternal deaths ' any
needless exposure of myself to that which is more
to be dreaded than the fracture of every bone in
my body, must be far more culpable and inex-
cusable. — Can you suppose, my dear madam,
that either our Lord or his apostles ever prac-
tised these or such like things ; or that, if they
were now on earth, they would do so ? And is
not their example a model for our conduct ?
* Rom. vi. 23.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 41
Can we err in imitating them ? May we ftot
err in these instances of non-conformity to the
copy which they have set us ? '
MRS. DORMER.
But I know, my dear Ann, many persons
whom you will consider to be real and exem-
plary Chiistians ; who, though indeed they do
uot participate in the amusements I have men-
tioned, yet occasionally keep worldly company.
MISS NEWMAN.
Do the persons, Mrs. Dormer, whom you
mention, voluntarily make choice of worldly as-
sociates ? It is readily admitted, that it is, in
many cases, impossible to avoid some intercourse
with the world. Our relatives and acquaint-
ances are many of them in an unconverted state :
to shun their company altogether is neither
feasible nor desirable. But do you not suppose
* See note L. in Appendix.
42 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
that these excellent persons would, if duty and
Christian affection did not induce them to regard
such connections, prefer the conversation of
spiritual friends ? In their interviews do they
not wish, and try, on proper occasions, to intro-
duce some remarks which may be profitable?
Do they not bear a frequent and pointed tes-
timony against the evil they are obliged at any
time to witness ? Such an intercourse with the
world as that you have now specified, appears
to me to differ widely from that voluntary
association with it, which is formed for no other
purpose than that of squandering time in idle
chat or trifling amusements. In the one case,
a sense of duty to God and man, and a hope
of being useful to others, are the impelling
motives: and, in the other, worldly society is
sought qfter^ for no other reason than the plea-
sure which is expected from it. And surely
an expectation of pleasure from such a source
argues, at least, a very low degree of spirituality
in the mind, if not a total ignorance of those
higher satisfactions which flow from religion.
CONFORMITY TO TUB WORLD. 43
MRS. DORMER.
If thete persons associate with the world with
a view to the spiritual benefit of their acquaint-
ance; why may it not charitably be supposed
that Mrs. Philmund and myself are influenced
by the same motive ?
MISS NEWMAN.
It would ill become me» madam, to make
myself a censor of your conduct. But, under
similar circumstances, I think I should feel
myself obliged to catechise my own conscience
very closely as to its motives. I should be
bound to ask myself, — ^ Is the glory of God
the supreme and governing principle on which
I act in this step ? > Is it with a predominant
desire of promoting the conversion of my
neighbours, and with a firm resolution of at-
tempting it, that I go into their company ?
Do I not deceive myself in these points ; and,
while the unhallowed pleasure derivable from
^ See note M. in Appendix.
44 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OP
their society is the real cause of my seeking
it, do I not make the idea of profiting them
a mere pretence for carnal gratification ? Have
I made any effort to diffuse the savour of re-
ligion on these occasions ? Have I been able
to reprove sin in the face of a large company ;
or has not my sinful silence rather sanctioned
its commission ? Let me clearly determine
these points before I again venture into such
company, unless duty evidently calls me there-
into.' Must not all, Mrs. Dormer, who mingle
much with the world, frequently hear the
blessed name of God taken in vain ? Is not
that which is essential to real godliness, ridi-
culed as needless scrupulosity in most worldly
companies ? Are not the comforts of Christi-
anity treated as enthusiastic dreams ? Are not
the most important doctrines of the glorious
Gospel sneered at as methodistical whims ? ^
Are not the characters of Christ's disciples
defamed, and idle tales injurious to their repu-
tation received and propagated with delight }
And are not the most faithful and upright
* See note N. in Appendix.
^ CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 45
ministers of Christ often treated, in these assem-
hlies of the' gay and fashionable world, with the
utmost contempt ? Now can any truly Chris-
tian person conscientiously listen to such things
without reproving them ? Or would he expose
himself to the torment of the rack, which such
conversation must occasion within him, without
the most urgent necessity ?
MRS. DORMER.
I have frequently been in large companies
of worldly people, where no outrage on decency
has been committed : for such conversation as
that which you have mentioned, is a gross
violation of good manners. I must, however,
admit that these topics, in defiance of the laws
of politeness, are not uncommon.
MISS NEWMAN.
> Then, madam, you allow that, when you place
yourself in the company of worldly people, you
have no security from the introduction of those
46 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
things which must be grievous to a pious mind.
Indeed I cannot conceive how one who loves our
Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity, if unavoidably
thrust into the way of hearing his name, charac-
ter, doctrines, ministers, or people blasphemed,
can possibly continue a silent auditor thereof:
surely such a one must either testify his abhor->
rence by leaving the party, or by a bold defence
of the truth. For he will remember, that Who-
soever is ashamed of Christ and of his words
before men, of him will Christ be ashamed, when
he cometh in the glory of his Father with his holy
angels. Now I consider, my dear Mrs. Dormer^
that, if a Christian were to act faithfully in
worldly company, to manifest the spirit of his
Christian profession, to introduce conversation
on the subject of vital godliness, and to demean
himself as one who has the glory of God and the
eternal welfare of his acquaintance uppermost
in his mind ; much trouble would not be neces-
sary to extricate himself from worldly con-
nections ; for they would be as glad to drop all
fellowship with him, as he would be to break off
his intercourse with them.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 4?
MRS. DORMER.
In there, then, no neutral ground on which
the Christian and the world can meet ?
MISS NEWMAN.
Yes ; for the conduct of worldly business,
and the reciprocation of the civilities of life;
but not, as I conceive, for the derivation of
mutual satisfaction. An austere moroseness
of spirit and sanctimonious pride are as incon-
sistent with a Christian spirit, as the levities
of carnal pleasure ; but what concord can there
be between Christ and Belial ? Every Chris-
tian believer's heart is the temple of God ; every
unconverted heart is a temple of idols. In what
can these concur ? A careless sinner, from his
indifference to all eternal concerns, may con-
sent to leave religion out of sight in his social
interviews, for the purpose of inducing a serious
neighbour to visit him ; and may, by a mis-
nomer, dignify that indifference with the appel-
lation of candour or charity. But could a
48 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
Christian consent to meet him on these terms
of communion ? Surely not. And I am moreover
convinced that, if such terms of communion
were made and adhered to, the gravity of a
genuine Christian, the seriousness of his aspect,
his want of taste for worldly vanities, his wrink-
led brow at the commission of sin, and his sighs
occasioned by the objects of pity that sur-
rounded him, would become in a short time,
without any other language, so offensive to a
worldly mind as to be intolerable. A truly
Christian spirit must prove such a reproach to
an ungodly man, and such a bar to the ebulli-
tions of the carnal mind, that fire and water
may as easily coalesce, as the spirit of the world
and the spirit of God. How can two walk
together except they be agreed ?
MISS DORMER.
But did not our blessed Lord accept several
invitations to the houses of unawakened sinners ?
Was he not present at several feasts ? Was it
not truly said of him, that he ate and drank
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 4^
with publicans and sinners f And may not his
digciples follow his example ?
MISS NEWMAN.
All tins is justly stated. And if we can go
into similar society for similar purposes, our
conduct may be justified by his example. But
in this case we shall certainly meet with the
same treatment which he experienced. You
cannot suppose, my dear madam, that our Lord
ever sought such company on account of any
correspondence between his spirit and theirs, or
of any pleasure he expected to derive from their
conversation and ways. — No; He came to seek
thai which was lost : and this, in union with his
Father's glory, was the constant motive of his
conduct. And, accordingly, we always find
him, on those occasions, engaged in the prosecu-
tion of the great work of his mission ; and his
conversation generally produced either the spi-
ritual benefit of his associates, or their bitter
enmity and opposition. I need not refer you
to particular instances. An exemplification W
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50 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
his spirit in our conduct will assuredly draw
on usy in spite of the most polite behaviour, and
the most courteous and gentle manners, a por-
tion of the same enmity. And the more we
resemble our blessed Lord in heavenly-roinded-
ness, the more we shall resemble him also as
despised and rejected of men. It is the unsancti-
fied part of a Christian's character, in which the
world finds any attraction.
MRS. DORMER.
Still, Miss Newman, I am not convinced, that
the things which have been the subject of
our friendly debate, are not of so indifferent a
nature, that every one may follow the bias of
his own inclination respecting them without
incurring guilt.*
MISS NEWMAN.
Nothing, Mrs. Dormer, but the fullest con-
viction, of my own mind could indnce me to
tontinue th^. conveibation., a moment longer.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 51
Bat the truth of those views which I have
espoused appears to me as clear as the noon-
day.— We will suppose that you and Mrs.
Philmund are invited to a rout, likely to be
conducted in the most inoffensive manner
possible in such assemblies. You determine to
accept the invitation. Could you, permit me
to ask, in the prospect of the evening's engage-
ment, fall on your knees and say, ^ Lord, the
promotion of thy glory is my supreme object
in the employment of my precious time this
evening;^ and I implore thy grace, that my
object may be thereby attained. Though the
scene into which I am going, is full of tempta-
tion to levity, to the love of the pomps and
vanities of life which in my baptism I have
renounced, and to a forgetfulness of thee ; yet^
as I have not thrust myself into it, but merely
attend in compliance with custom and politeness,
i am encouraged and entitled by thy promises^
^ See note O. in Appendix.
2 Psalm Ixvi. 18. !fl regard iniquity in my hearty the
Lord toiU not hear me. May we not often trace our com-
plaints of ill success in our prayers to this cause? Let
E 2
52 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
to expect thy preserving and sanctifying pre-
sence therein. Let my heart, therefore, O Lord,
be occupied in the contemplation of those
pleasures which are at thy right hand. Let my
meditation of thee be sweet; and let me be
meetened by this engagement for thy service
here and thy glory hereafter." — Does not the
mind, madam, recoil from the use of such a
prayer, under such circumstances ? And yet.
Whether we eat or drink, or whatever we do, we
are to do all to the glory of God. In every things'
by prayer and. supplication, our requests are to
be made known unto God. And it is a just
criterion of -duty, that whatever step precludes
the propriety of prayer in reference to it, is
unlawful for a Christian to take. We will sup-'
pose farther, that being seated in the circle
the case of Israel at Ai, Joshua vii. II — 13, be well con-
sidered. If we do not prosper in our souls ; if our prayers'
be unanswered; if our attendance on ordinances be un-*
profitable ; it behoves us to examine the state of our
hearts and inquire if there be not some accursed thing
there, which deprives us of those blessings, which our
faithful God has promised to bestow on those who sincerely
seek his favour.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 53
of gaiety, you are seized with sensations which
seem to you to indicate approaching death.
Would there appear to be no unsuitableness in
your situation, employment, and the temper
which must prevail in every bosom that can
relish such a scene, to the solemnities of a dying
moment f Did you ever find (for I speak to
you as one that possesses an acquaintance with
vital religion), did you ever find, during such
an interview, the spintuality of your mind
(I will not say increased but) maintmned in a
state of vigour and without diminution ? After
the termination of such an entertainment, as
your soul been in a proper frame for family —
or private worship ? Have not the personal
decorations, deemed necessary on such occasions,
a tendency to induce a spirit of vanity, totally
inconsistent with the original design of clothing,
which was to cover our shame ? Might not the
time, devoted to the rout and a preparation for
it, have been more usefully spent ? These and
such like questions will enable us, my dear
madam, to decide the question oontroverted
between us. . .
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MRS. DORMER.
I must own that these questions seem to
discover the impropriety of all unnecessary mix-
ture with worldly company ; especially on those
occasnons which are particularly set apart by
them for idle amusement. But may not such
intercourse with them have a tendency to con-
ciliate their afiections towards the people of
God, to take off the edge of prejudice, and to
pave the way for other opportunities of being
useful to them, either by private conversation in
a more serious moment, or by bringing them
under the means of grace ?
MISS NEWMAN.
To do evil that good nuxy come, is never
lawful. That which is necessarily injurious to
the seriousness and spirituality of my own mind,
cannot be required of me by the word of Qod,
any more than 1 can be therein enjoined to take
slow poison to the destruction of my bodily
health. Any sinful compliances which the peo-
COHFORMITT TO THB W0RLD. 55
pie of God make with the customs and way^ of
the world, so far from being calculated to do
good, are the sources of inconceivable injury to
the cause of God and the success of his Gospel.
You know, I tlunk, Mr. and Mrs. Luscus, who
for some time past have attended on the means
of gnioBf and assumed a profession of godli-
ness. I believe they are indeed gracious people.
Bat, in consequence of a connection with some
worldly persons of rank and fortune, they have
lately been drawn into some of their parties.
What has been the result ? Why, these very
persons have made Mr. and Mrs. Luscus's
compliance a ground for sneering at religion,
while they have triumphed in the success of
their schemes. The consciences of their sedu-
cers are thereby lulled faster asleep in the
arms of their Delilah, sinful pleasure, and thar
hearts more hardened against the truth than
before. If we work for God, we must work
with his tools and not with those of his enemy
and ours. If we pursue the most lawful and
deniable object by unlawful means, we have
56 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
no ground to expect success, and shall certainly
suffer loss thereby.
MRS. DORMER.
My dear Ann, God has endued you with
wisdom and experience far beyond what is
usually to be found in persons of your age.
I feel my own inferiority, my unfaithfulness
to my profession, and a keen remorse in the
recollection of what is past. Though we are
now interrupted, and I am obliged to attend to
the concerns of my &mily ; I hope you will
call again in a day or two, as I want to hear
more from you on this subject. In the mean
while pray for me, that these salutary convic-
tions may not wear off. Promise me that you
will come soon.
MISS NEWMAN.
(Blushing.) My dear madam, 1 am covered
with shame at the recollection of the free manner
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 67
in which I have been talking to you. Do par-
don me, if I have said any thing wrong. If I
have been too bold add assuming, let my motive
plead my excuse.
MRS. DORMER.
You will call soon.
MISS NEWMAN.
I shall deem it a favour and a privilege to
call on you. Good morning, madam.
MRS. DORMER.
Good morning, my dear young monitor ; —
Good morning. Miss Eliza. My best respects
to your worthy parents.
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Mrs. Dormer finding her mind to be mach
affected by her last conversation with Miss
Newman^ could not be satisfied without a
further conference with her on the important
subject which had engaged their attention. On
the following day, therefore, she called on Miss
Newman, and after the usual introductory in-
quiries thus addressed her.
COimRMITT TO THE WORLD. 59
DIALOGUE IIL
MR8. DORMER.
Mt dear Ann, I am come to thank you for
the light which your cooversatioa has afforded
me on the yery important topic, which, in our
late interview, has engaged our attention. It
has convinced me, that the conformity to the
world which prevails among many professing
Christians, is both injurious to themselves, and
dishonourable to the cause of God. For it must
necessarily prove a great obstacle to the growth
of the soul in the divine life ; and it seems to be
equivalent to a declaration, as impious as it is
ials^ that it is not in the power of Christianity
to fill up the time, and satisfy the minds of its
60 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OP
votaries, by affording them sufficient employ-
ment and delight, without a recourse to the
world for an additional suppl}^ And I am
determined, through grace, to seek a// my
comfort henceforth in the ways of religion, to
leave the broken cisterns, to which I have re-
paired with constant disappointment, and to fix
my station at the side of the fountain of living
water. This occasions a desire, that some of my
friends, especially Mrs. Philmund, who (I fear)
have hitherto acted the same foolish part with
myself, could view things as T now view them ;
and I am resolved to expostulate with them on
the subject. But it is indeed so new to me, that
I feel incompetent to enter on this task without
further assistance ; and I am come to beg a
little more conversation with you about it.
MISS NEWMAN.
My dear madam, while I rejoice in every*
thing that is likely to prove conducive to youf
happiness here or hereafter, and in every fresh
instance of his favour, which God bestows on
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you ; I am confoundal that you should think
me capable of afiPordiog you any assistance in
the good work in which you have resolved to
engage. I am a poor casuist, and unable,
without a constant derivation of light and
strength from above, to take one step aright
in the path of my own duty. I am a mere
child in spiritual experience, and know very
little of God or his will. I wish therefore that
you would apply, if you need information, to
some older Christian.
MRS. DORMER.
I will not distress you, my dear friend, with
compliments. But if you will allow me to ask
you a few questions, I will promise that, if your
solutions should not satisfy me, I will seek
iturther instruction.
MISS NEWMAN.
I cannot refuse to answer any questions which
Mrs. Dormer may propose, and which it may be
in my power to solve.
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MRS. DORMER.
Well then, without further circumlocution, 1
want to know what the Scripture says on the
subject of our late conferences and to be fur«
nished for the engagement from the armoury
of heaven. Can you recollect any passages
which indicate a Christian's duty with respect
to the world, its society, its amusements, and
customs ?
MISS NEWMAN.
I have, at different times, and especially since
we have conversed on this subject, marked some
passages which have struck me, in my daily
reading of the Scriptures; and which appear^
to me precisely and definitely to determine a^
Christian's duty in this respect.
MRS. DORMER.
Do direct me to some of them.
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MISS NEWMAN.
That 1 will do with pleasure. (Takes her
Bible €md opens it. J The first passage on which
I have opened»as marked in the course of my
reading) is Rom. xii. 2, which is full to our pur-
pose : Be not conformed to this worlds but be ye
transformed by the renewing of your mmd^ that
ye may proved what is that good and acceptable
and perfect will of God.
MRS. DORMER.
This passage is certainly in point; but it
* An experimental acquaintance with the excellency
of religion (such as is implied in the word loKtfAo^eiw
to €iS9ay, as refiners do metals by fire) is exclusively attain-
able by those who obey its precepts. " If any man v^ill
do his will he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be
of God, or whether I speak of myself." John vii. 17.
If conformists to the world therefore complain, that they
have not found in the Gospel of Christ that which they
had been instructed to expect from it, the complaint is
accounted for; and can^-occasion no surprise to genuine
disciples, nor refiect any disgrace on the promises and
declarations of Scripture.
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will be said, in answer to the inferences which
are deducible from it, that some conformity to
the world, while we are in it, is absolutely
necessary. As for instance : The people of the
world eat and drink ; we must do the same, or
be guilty of suicide by starving ourselves : they
wear clothing ; we must do the same for de-
cency's sake. Can any line be drawn between
those acts of conformity to its manners which
are lawful and proper, smd those which are
prohibited ?
MISS NEWMAN.
A general rule is laid down in a passage to
which, if I mistake not, I referred in our last
conversation ; I mean 1 Cor. x. 31. Whatsoever
steps we can take, with the design and expecta-
tion of promoting the glory of God thereby,
are certainly justifiable ; and, on the other hand,
no act, in which this object cannot be proposed
to the mind, is proper for one whose members ar^
to be instruments of righteousness unto God.^
^ See note P. in Appendix.
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MRS. DORMER.
Still much is left by this defiDition of duty
to the decision of private judgment, with respect
to particular circumstances of our conduct.
MISS NEWMAN.
Certainly it is so, and it was impossible that
it should be otherwise; for if the Scripture
had minutely described every step, which a
Christian believer might lawfully take, and every
act which it is his duty to avoid, in the ever-
varying situations of mankind, ^^ even the world
itself" as St. John speaks with reference to
another subject, would ^< not have been able to
contain the books that must have been written.'*
But the rule, properly applied, is (I think)
sufficiently clear for the solution of all doubts.
And if in any case, through a want of skill
in applying the rule, any doubt should remain
on the mind respecting the lawfulness or expe.*
diency of any step proposed, it is clearly our
duty to refrain from that which is doubtful.
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For here St. Paul's canon, respecting the use
of things indififerent (introduced with regard to
the alternative of eating or not eating flesh), is
plain and positive : He thai doubteth is con^
demned if he eaty because he eateth not of faith ;
for whatever is not of faith is sin. Rom. xiv. 23.
MRS. DORMER.
This is certainly j ust ; but do see to what
your next index points. What does our infalli-
ble guide say particularly about worldly com-
pany ? It seems impossible wholly to avoid it.
And as it is impossible, so it would be inexpe-
dient; for then many opportunities of being
useful must inevitably be lost.
MISS NEWMAN.
Let then my next reference be weighed, which
is to 2 Cor. vi. 14 — 18. Be ye not unequalfy
yoked together with unbelievers ; for what felloW'^
ship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?
And what communion hath light with darkness ?
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 6?
And what concord hath Christ with Belial ? Or
what part hath he that believeth with an infidel f
And what ' agreement hath the temple of God
with idols ? For ye are the temple of the living
God, as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and
walk in them, and I will be their Godj and they
shall he- my people. Wherefore come out from
among them, and he ye separate,^ saith the Lord,
and touch not the unclean thing; and I will
receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and
ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord
Almighty*
MRS. DORMER.
Does not this passage refer to the conjugal
^ This is a quotation from Isaiah, lii. 11, on which the
excellent Vitringa comments thus: ** Horum vero punfi-
catio, et spiritualis separatio in eo consisteret, ut se per
gratiam Spiritus S. ab omni affectu camali penitus purga-
rent, et se Deo, sacerdotum ac Levitarum instar, (in qui-
bus, a Deo ad opus sacrum secretis, exactissima requirebatur
puritas) totos devoverent ac consecrarent, Ohliti domus
pcUema, et non retrospicientes €^ r^ ovta-a ad ea qua
a tergo sunt; et quas sibi olim lucro deputaverantf nunc
damna censerent**
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union, and prescribe, in common with other
similar directions, that a Christian man or
woman may marry only in the Lord."^ i. e. a
fellow Christian ?
MISS NEWMAN.
That it relates to the marriage union, as the
most intimate of all friendships, is evident. . Bat
it likewise refers to every instance of close
association whatever : for the terms, fellowship^
communion^ concord^ participation, a^reementy
which the Apostle has used in the foregoing
animated interrogatories for the purpose of
showing the absurdity of attempting to recon-
cile two opposite points, certainly require an
interpretation which extends to all human con-
nections. The spirit of a man of God, and that
of a man. of the world, are like two parallel
lines, which, though extended to an infinite
length, can never unite. As far as the east is
from the west, so far distant is God from Mam-
mon. They resemble two opposite points of the
4 1 Cor. vii. 39.
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compass, which can never be brought into con-
tact«
MRS. DORMER.
But as some intercourse with the world is
allowed to be both lawful and expedient ; how
may I determine the limits which are thereto
assigned, and thus be free from the danger of
turning either to the right hand or to the left
from the path of duty ?
MISS NEWMAN.
An illustration of our duty in this respect
strikes my mind, which I will lay before you*
The rule of duty must be a general one, be-
cause the circumstances of the Lord's people
differ so widely. — We will suppose then, for the
sake of illustration, that a man is engaged ip a
journey to a distant place ; on the termination of
which, by his arrival at his point of destination,
depends the acquisition of an estate immensely
valuable. He meets on the road an acquaintance.
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who endearoure to stop him, by requesting to
be favoured with his conversation for a little
while ;> which might occasion a pause in their
respective journeys, or cause, by accompanying
him for a short space, a retrograde motion.
The first-mentioned traveller, with his eye and
his heart on his journey's end, would naturally
say, ** My progress is of so much moment, and
so much depends on the diligent use of the few
precious moments of day-light that remain to
me, in hastening to the object I have in view,
that it is impossible for me to stop and talk with
you on the road ; and much more to increase
the risk of a failure in my aim by returning
with you a single step ; if you will come with
me, come on ; and I shall be glad of your com-
pftoy. Be quick in your decision, for my time
is short, and valuable, beyond all calculation.''
Now this conduct in the supposed case approves
itself at once to the mind* Let us therefore
apply it to the subject of our inquiry. There
are two roads, as we learn from our blessed Lord,^
in which, though tending to different pmnts, the
1 Matt. vii. 13, 14,
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travellen are witluD sight and hearing of each
other. The one, broad and thronged with mol-
titodesy kadeth to destruction ; the other, mir-
row and trodden only by a few passengers scat-
tered here and there upon it, leadeth to life. In
the former all unconverted persons are walking ;
the latter is the path in which Christian believers
ate moving. In every stage of the latter the
voice of a kind monitor* is continually heard, or
may be heard, by every pilgrim Zion-wards;
crying with the utmost earnestness of persua^
tion, Gojbrward / And, pointing with his out-
stretched hand (aa the palm^ of which love
has been inscribed in indelible characters by
the point of a nail with which it was once
pierced) to a distant and elevated spot, he
adds. Escape for thff l\fe ; look not behind thee,
neither stay thou in all the pkdn ; escape to the
mountain^ lest thou be consumed. While the
^ How beautiful a metaphor is that which we find in
Isaiah xliz. 16, where God, speaking of his church, under
the common emblem of a city, says, " Behold, I have
graven thee upon the palms of my hands." Ought not his
name to be graven on our hearts, and bis honour to be
dearer to us even than life itself 7
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pilgrim is obejing the admonition, his attention
is arrested by a call from the opposite road,
wherein he perceives an acquaintance who
beckons to him to stop that he may enjoy a
little of his conversation, and to pass over the
space which separates the two roads from each
other. The duty of the pilgprim has already
been described ; and, if it had not, no doubt
could exist about it If he can, without losing
time, persuade his acquaintance to join him in
bis own road, it will be his duty to admit him
to his society. But, if his acquaintance refuse
to accompany him ; no concession on his part
must be made, as it would be a positive act
of disobedience to the express command he has
received. His duty is clear: he must press
toward the mark /or the prize of the high catting
of God in Christ Jesus ;'^ closely stopping his
^ Phil. iii. 14. A beautiful allusion to the Olympic
games, in which the prize to be contended for was placed
in an elevated situation, that the competitors in the race
might be animated to exertion by the sight of it. The
high calling, or calling from above, seems to allude to the
proclamation which was made before the commencement
of the games, in which an invitation to contend in them
CONFORMITY TO THB WORLD. 73
ears against every solicitation, which carnal
reason may suggest to the contrary.
MRS. DORMER.
Your illustration diffuses much light on the
subject of our discussion. But shall we not,
by adhering rigidly to such a line of conduct
as that which it prescribes, incur the charge
of singularity, expose ourselves to contempt, and
injure the cause of truth, by bringing general
ridicule on our religious profession ?
MISS NEWMAN.
Ridicule is not the test of truth. You know,
my dear madam, that there is nothing, however
sacred and true, which has not been attacked by
this dangerous weapon. Let us remember, that
a candle diffusing light through a dark room,
cannot be hid ; ^ and that singularity, and an
was given, the prize described, and the rules of the combat
proposed. With this proclamation the promulgation of the
Gospel corresponds in its design. ' Matt. v. 15.
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exposure to observatioii, are inseparably con-*
nected with the metaphor, by which our Lord
has exhibited the duty of his followers, and their
office in the world. By endeavouring to avoid
that singularity which a holy life necessarily
produces, we are attempting to put our candle
under a bushel^ and deprive ourselves of the
honour attached to our profession, by letting
our Hght skme be/ore men, so that they may see
our good works, and glorify our Father which i$
m heaven. There is, indeed, a needless scrupu-
losity, which ought to be avoided with great
care; because the world's vulture-like eye,
discovering such an effect of an ill-informed
conscience, will be pleased with an opportunity
of confounding things indifferent with things
criminal, for the purpose of self-justification in
the practice of the latter. It is, however, at the
same time, to be observed, that a Christian's
chief danger arises from things in themselvea
lawful* For his mind would revolt at the
proposal of any thing directly opposite to the
revealed will of God ; his fears would be thereby
excited ; and he would exclaim with Joseph,
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How eon I do this great wickedness, and sm
against God I ^ But when things in themselves
indifferent, and which are only criminal, either
hj excess in the indulgence of them, or some
effects which usually arise out of them, are
proposed ; the Christian is in danger of sliding
insensibly forward towards the margin of the
ice on which he has incautiously rentured, till
it becomes too thin to bear his weight ; and he
unks, before he is aware, into the waters of keen
remorse* It is a self-evident truth, never to be
forgotten by us, that the partition between that
which is lawful and that which is unlawful,
is so slight, as to make little or no resistance to
any one who has foolishly proceeded to the
utmost bounds of the former. The limit be-
tween obedience and transgression, virtue and
vice, is only an hair's breadth in extent, and
may imperceptibly be stepped over. Between
a solid basis for the feet on the edge of a
precipice, and the termination of the cliff, the
distance is so small, as to be alarming to every
one who has the use of his eyes. Who that is
^ Gen. xxxix. 9.
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wise, would venture to the utmost extremity;
lest he should be seized with a giddiness, or
take one fatal step too far, and so plunge him-
self by his temerity into danger of destruction,
in which fractured bones form the least object
of apprehension ? Can they who frequent the
assemblies of the gay and dissipated sons and
daughters of worldly pleasure, who visit the
play-house, the ball-room, or the route, &c. &c.
while they make a profession of Christianity;
Can they, I say, believe, what they profess to
feel daily, that there is an enemy within their
own bosoms, the carnal mind, which is always
ready to yield to every temptation, and to side
' with every seductive influence from without ?>
Would the commander of a^ besieged town, if he
knew that there was a large party of disaffected
persons within the walls, suffer frequent parleys
to take place between the rebellious subjects
and the hostile troops without ? And if he were
to permit so dangerous an intercourse; would
he not be justly chargeable with supineness, a
vicious carelessness, a want of vigilance, or an
»
1 See note Q. in Appendix.
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overweening confidence in the safety of the
place ? And would he not be liable to be called
to an account by his prince, whenever the event,
naturally to be expected, even the capture of the
town, should unhappily occur ?
** Force never yet a gen'rous heart did gain;
We yield on parley, but are storm'd in vain."
But I shall tire you with my harangue;
andy while I ought to be sitting in the posture
of a pupil, I appear to be arrogating to myself
the chair of instruction.
MRS. DORMER.
Do go on; remembering your promise of
answering my questions so far as you are able.
MISS NEWMAN.
I have often been comforted, under the un-
merited imputation of singularity, scrupulosity,
censoriousness, uncharitableness, and other such
charges (which the world is ever ready to lay
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•
against the faithful followers of Christ, in order
to screen themselves from accusations of an
opposite nature), by reflecting that the frowns
of the world are far less dangerous than its
smiles. The former have a natural tendency
to detach the affections of a Christian more
and more from its vanities ; while the latter
as naturally tend to rivet his heart to them. I
find that, if it be my grand aim to please mefh
I cannot be the servant of Christ ; ^ and that,
if my spirit and conduct are such as conciliate
the esteem and respect of the world, instead
of congratulating myself on my success, I
have reason to tremble on account of my state
towards God ; for Woe unto us, if all men speak
well of us. * The friendship of the world is
enndty with God; whosoever, therefore, will be
the friend of the world, is the enemy of God. *
» Gal. i. 10. 2 Luke vi. 26.
3 Janies iv. 4. How awful the address in this passage —
Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not, that the friend'
ship of the world is enmity with God ! ! ! A religious
professor, who has given himself up to Christ by the most
solemn obligations, and who rescinds his sacred vows by
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 79
In reading my Bible, . I see that I am to be
blameless and harmiessy the child of GW, without
rehuke in the midst of a crooked and perverse
natioUf among whom I am to shine ts a light in
tha world :^ that, instead of dreading those
aacusations by which the world has always
excused its own inattention to religion, I am to
have no fellowship with the unfruitjul works of
darkness, not even by sanctioning them with
my presence, hut rather to reprove them^ by a
determined opposition to them in every shade
of existence in which they may appear. My
time is to be spent, not to the lusts of men, but to
the will of God. ^ It is to be my ambition to
walk as Christ walked ; and wherever I see the
coi^ecrated print of his foot, there with holy awe
and grateful love I am to place my own : and
though I am conscious of the impossibility
of attaining to the measure of the stature of the
desecrating his afifections' to any other object, is guilty
of spiritual whoredom and adultery. — Comp. Lev. xx. 10.
1 Phil. ii. 1.5, 3 Eph.v. 11.
^ See note R. in Appendix.
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Juiness of Christ; yet I am to keep this in view
as my object of pursuit, aiming to be perfect^
even as my Father which is in heaven is perfect*
The testimony of conscience that, in simplicity
and godly sincerity, not withfieshly wisdom, hu
by the grace of God, I have had my conversation
in the world, will be an acquisition infinitely
more valuable, than the united applause of an
undisceming world. It is an acquisition that
will be valuable in a dying hour. For though
that testimony must necessarily be too imperfect
to afford me any ground of acceptance before
God (and blessed be his name, we need no such
unstable basis, since the righteousness of our
Surety is a firm foundation !) ; yet the comfort
resulting from it, as an evidence of our interest
in Christ, will be felt when, the fashion of this
world passeth away. When I inspect the histo-i
ries of God's people in various ages of the
world ; when I contemplate the conduct of
Noah, of Abraham, of Lot, and of the prophets
in a later sera ; when I survey the circumstances
of the Jewish economy, divinely framed for the
k
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 81
express purpose of adumbrating the state of
the Christian church;^ when I view the conduct
of our Lord, himself, of his apostles, and of thd
primitive believers, I find that the favourites
o^ Heaven have . always been ** men wondered
at;'*'** distinguished from their contemporaries
by their spirit and temper, their maxims and
principles, their words and actions. They were
all charged with singularity, censoriousness, and
uncharitableness, ' incurred the displeasure of
the world, because they bore witness of it, that
its ways were evil, and its end destruction ; and
excited its astonishment, because they would
not run to the same excess of riot * with others.
'^ See among other passages, Deut. vii. 1 — 11. Numb,
zxui. 9. 3 Zech. Hi. 8.
* See particularly I Kings xxi. 20. and itxli. 8. Jer. xz.
2. and xxxviii. 4. Mlc. ii. 1 1 . Matt. v. 10 — 12. John y.
16. and xv. 20. Acts vii. 52. Gal. iv. 16, 29. 2 Tim. iii.
12. and iv. 3. 1 Peter iv. 4, 5.
* 1 Pet. iv. 5. ** What mean these precise fools ?" (will
they readily say) " What course is this they take, contrary
to aU the world ? Will they make a new religion, and
condemn all their honest civil neighbours that are not like
them ? Ay, forsooth ; do all go to hell, think you, except
you, and those that follow your way ? We are for no mar^
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When I thinly of these things, I am consoled
under the reproach I meet with ; and only wish
to be found worthy of bekig number^ with
the noble army of martyrs and confestors of my
blessed Redeemer. Those who have gone before
me Zion-wards, have viewed the world as a foreign
country,' through which they were passing in
their journey homewards; whose Imdguiiige,
£uhions^ and customs, were so contrary to thote
of their native land, that they were disgusted at
them, and could not be induced to imitate
them ; while the votaries of this world have
regarded them as strangers and foreigners^ whose
language was unintelligible, whose ways were
very offensive, and who were only worthy of
contempt and scorn. ^ And unless we are willing
to jmn this cross-bearing company on earth;
what reason can we have to expect, that we
than good fellowship and liberty ; and as for so mach
reading and (nraying, these are but brain-sick melancholy
conceits ; a man may go to heaven like his neighbour^
without all this ado." Archbp. Leighton's Comment «fi the
first Epistle of Peter, vol. ii, 180.
1 Heb. xi. 13. 1 Pet ii. 1 1 . 2 l Cor. iv. 13.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 83
shall find ourselves united with them in
heaven ? *
MRS. DORMER.
Many professors object to the requisition
of renouncing the pomps and vanities of tke
world on this ground, that the Divine Being is
loo gracious to debar his creatures from any
innocent gratification ; and that, if the situation
of n Christian in the world be such as is re-
presented by those who consider the literal sense
of Scripture to be an unbending rule of con-
ductr the follower of Christ is of all men most
tuisemble. ^
^ Matt. X. 33. and xvi. 24. If any man mil come after
me, Ut him deny himself , and take up his cross, and follow
me. 2 Tim. ii. 12. Jfwe deny him, he also wiU deny us.
*' We receive this child into the congregation of Christ's
flock» and do sign him with the sign of the cross, in token
that hereafter he shall not be ashamed to confess the faith
of Christ crucified, and manfully to fight under his banner
against sin, the world, and the devil; and to continue
Christ's faithful soldier and servant unto his life's end." —
Public Bt^ism of Infants,
^ See note S. in Appendix.
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MISS NEWMAN.
This argument against the necessity of in.
ward spirituality and abstraction from the
world, though totally void of force when pro-
perly examined, becomes of consequence by its
plausibility and by its frequent adoption* In
order to take off its edge, I would ask. Has the
Creator dealt hardly with the papilio because,
in consequence of his ordinance, it changes its
nature, ceases to crawl on the ground, . and
mounts aloft in the air, deriving its pleasures
from a new source? Has the captive, long a
prisoner and a slave in Siberian mines, any
reason for accusing his Sovereign of barbarity'
when his chains are knocked off, and he is
restored to the light of day, and the plea-
sures of society on the surface of the earth ;
because he is now separated from those low
gratifications to which he was obliged to resort
for want of better, while he was confined in
subterranean caverns ? The argument which
you have stated is built on falsehood: for it
supposes the things of the world to be suited
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 85
to the faculties of an immortal mind, which is
made for the enjoyment of God, and which
nothing but God, his favour and friendship,'
can ever satisfy. But the believer is become,
by regeneration, a new creature ; old things
are passed away 9 and all things are become new, ^
The aspect of all those things, with which he
has hitherto been conversant, is now changed.
The follies of the world have lost their power
of giving him contentment ; if, indeed, they
can be said to afford it to any persons.^ His
hopes and fears, his desires and aversions, his
joys and sorrows, arise from new causes, and
* 2 Cor. V. 17. This is predicable of every Christian
or person in Christ,
' Of the idolater (and every lover of the world is an ido-
later) the prophet Isaiah says (chap. xUv. 20.) He feedeth
en ashes : a deceived heart hath turned him aside, that he
cannot deliver his soul, nor say. Is there not a lie in my right
hand. Let the worldling compare his past experience with
this description ; and then let him attend to the expostula-
tion of the same prophet, (chap. xliv. 2.) Wherefore do ye
spend money for that which is not bread ? and your labour
for that which satisjieth not ? Hearken diligently unto me,
and eat ye that which is good, and let your soul delight itself
infatness.
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are, directed to new ends. What he receives
in lieu of the bubble which he relinquishes, is
sterling gold. Had the prodigal son any cause
of complaint when, in consequence of the gra-«
cious reception which his Father gave him, he
was no longer under a necessity of feeding od
hiisks with the swine which his former master
had set him to keep ? Let the Christian who
is enjoying the privileges of his profession, be
asked. Whether the requisition of renouncing^
the world be harsh ; and whether God who
makes it be an Egyptian task-master. He will
know how to answer the question, by replying, /
am dead : and my life is hid with Christ in God,^
MRS. DORMER.
Will you now, my dear Miss Newman, bring
the statement and directions of Scripture on
this momentous subject into one point of view ?
Such an epitome may be very useful to my own
mind, and may furnish me with materials for
the embassy in which I mean to engage.
1 Col.i. 1—4.
CONFORMITY TO THIS WORLD. H?
MI88 NEWMAN.
This, madaoiy I will do with as much perapi^
cuity as I can ; but I fear that the subject will
be greatly injured by my attempt. The book
of God divides the inhabitants of the world
into two classes, which are described by various
traits of character therein specified. The great
Quyority, called, by way of emphasis, the usorldf
afci siud to lie in the wicked anet ^ to walk qfter
thefiethy^ to follow the course of this worlds ^
to have their conversation in the lusts of the
fleshy to J^lfil the desires of the flesh and of the
mmdf and io he the children of wrath. ^ The
minority, who are chosen out of the mass called
the worldf are denominated children of Ught^
and of Qod*^ They are said to be not of the
worlds even as their Lord and Master was not
of the world J They have their conversation t»
heavenf^ live in the Spirit ^ and walk in the
* 1 John V. 19. €v Tfl* irovripu. ^ Rom. viii. 5, 12, 13.
3 Eph. ii. 2. '• Eph. ii. 3.
* Luke xvi. 8. Eph. v. 8. 1 Thess. v. 5.
6 Rom. ix. 8. Gal. iii. 26. 1 John iii. 10.
7 John xvii. 16. ^ p^u. ju. 20.
88 ON THE Inconsistency of
Spirit.^ They look not at the thirds which
are seen^ and are temporal ; but at the things
which are not seen and are eternal, ^ These, on
account of the contrariety apparent in thdr
spiritual manners, the world is said to hate. ^
They are accounted as its filth,^ and are a
spectacle of astonishment and detestation to it.^
The world is crucified unto them and they unto
the world. ^ The things of the world, the lust
of the fiesK the lust of the eye^ and the pride
of l\fey'^ are their enemies, against which they
maintain an incessant state of hostility ; and they
are enabled, by believing that Jesus is the Son
of God, to overcome the world.^ Christ gave
himself for them, that he might deliver them from
this present evil world ; ^ and through his grace
they deny ungodliness and worldly lusts, and Jive
soberly, righteously, and godly in this present
world* ^^ Between these there is an irreconcile-
able difference, which keeps them at a distance
from each other. The world avoids the com-
* Gal. V. 26. * 2 Cor. iv. 18.
» John XV. 18, 19, andxvii. 14. * I Cor. iv. 14.
* 1 Pet. iv. 4. « Gal. vi. 14. 7 i John ii. 16.
« 1 John V. 4, 5. » Gal. i. 4. " Tit. ii. 12.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. 89
pany and conyersation of those who are endued
with the Spirit of God, because that spirit is
ofiennve to them; and the Christian is afraid
of any intimacy with the world, lest he should
suffer loss thereby in the state of his own soul ;
for he feels that he is walking on dangerous
ground while maintaining any intercourse with
them. The world is, in his estimation, a place
infected with the plague ; ^ into which nothing
but necessity, a sense of duty, or a hope of being
useful, would induce a man to enter ; where he
would stay as short a time as possible ; and
where, while he is obliged to stay, he would use
every precaution for his own preservation, which
prudence, suggested by the apprehension of peril,
would dictate. He walks in the world, as a
person would walk who was aware that traps and
pit&Us endangered every step. And while a
Christian has his conversation in the world under
these convictions, and is depending on his unseen
Guide and Guardian for direction and defence,
he is in little danger of falling. But if he forget
^ See note T. in Appendix.
90 ON THE INCON8I8TBNCY OF
the bazardou9 situation in which he is involved,
and choose worldly company for its own sake ;
his danger is imminent, he is already infected
with the plague, and has fallen into the snare,
from which nothing but Almighty power caa
rescue him. While the Christian is hastening
onward to the house not made wiih hands, eternal
in the heavens, he earnestly calls to the men of
the world, among whom he is conversant, in the
words with which Moses addressed Hobab, bis
father-in law. We are journeying unto the pbH:^,
qf which the Lord said, ^^ I will give it yon ;''
Come thou with us and we will do thee good ; Jbr
the Lord has spoken good eomeming Israel,^
On the other hand, the World, like the strumpet
in the book of Proverbs, whose lips drop as a»
honeycomb, and whose movih is smoother thwn
oil, jetorts the invitation, soliciting the affections
of the religious professor to her meretricious
charms and delusive enjoyments.^ Happy is
he who, through grace, keeps himself unspotted
from the world ;^ and who, with Moses, chooses
* Numb. X, 29. * See Prov. vii.
3 James i. 27.
CONFORMITY TO THE WORLD. Ql
rather to suffer affliction with the people of Crody
than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season ;
and esteems the reproach of Christ greater riches
than the treasures. of Egypt^ having respect to
the recompence of the reward. * Thrice happy
that pilgrim, who shall be found at last to have
imitated the part ascribed by Milton to the
Seraph Abdiel, at the close of the fifth book
of his Paradise Lost: of whom he says,
" The Seraph Abdiel faithful found
Amongst the fiuthless, faithful only he ;
Amongst innumerable false, unmoYed,
Unshaken, unseduced, unterrified.
His loyalty he kept, his love, his zeal ;
Nor number nor example with him wrought
To swerve from truth, or change his constant mind.
Though single. From amidst them forth he pass'd.
Long way through hostile scorn, which he sustained
Superior, nor of violence fear'd aught ;
And with retorted pity ' turned his back
On those proud tow'rs to swift destruction doomM."
O how great will be the joy of the faithful
1 Heb. xi. 25, 26.
^ Pity is here substituted for scorn, because the latter
forms no ingredient of a Christian's feelings towards the
world.
92 ON THE INCONSISTENCY OF
combatant against the devil, the world, suid the
flesh, when from " the seat supreme," " from
midst a golden cloud," the applauding voice
of God shall be heard, saying,
« Servant of Grod, well done 1 well hast thou fought
The better fight, who single hast maintain'd.
Against revolted multitudes, the cause
Of truth
And for the testimony of truth hast borne
Universal reproach, hx worse to bear
Than violence ; for this was all thy care
To stand approved in sight of God, though worlds
Judge thee perverse." ^
Enter thou into the joy of thy Lord.^
MRS* DORMER*
This indeed will be an ample compensation
foir every sacrifice made and every trial sustained.
Even here the self-denying follower of Christ
must have his reward in the conscious felicity
of his own soul ; and hereafter a crown of glory
^ Milton's Par. Lost, book vi. ^ Matt. xxv. 21.
CONFORMITY TO T^S WORLD. 93
will be the portion of all those who now take up
their cross, waA follow their Lord m the regenera^
tion.^ Animated by these hopes and prospects,
I trust that I shall be enabled, henceforth,
to walk worthy of the Lordf' and to adorn the
doctrine of €rod my Saviour in all things ; ' testi*
fying both with lip and life, that the Gospel of
Christ t5, to every one that believeth^ the power
of God unto salvation* from the love of sin and
of the world, as well as from its guilt and
condemnation. Many thanks, my dear Miss
Newman, for your labour of love. May the
Lord abundantly bless you in every good word
and work.
MISS NEWMAN.
A good day to you, Mrs. Dormer.
1 Matt.xix. 28. ^ Col. i, 10.
» Tit.u. 10. * Rom.i. 16.
THE END.
APPENDIX.
NoTB A. p. 3.
Persoira of this description tre ready to ask,
with the amiable youlli of whom we read in
Matt xix. 16—22, " What lack I yet f " But
let them remember that, with all the exettiption
from evil wMch this lovely youth claimed, he
was destitute of that renovation of heart without
which BO one can see God ; and that, when
brought to the test, he discovered his unfitness
for the kingdom of God; and, so far as we
know from the short history which is given
of him^ he never entered it. Jjet those persons
whose characters are moral and estimable among
men, narrowly scrutinize their own hearts, lest
they deceive themselves ; for their good qualities
may render Uiem more liable to self-deception
96 APPENDIX.
than some others. It is the tendency of the
soul towards GU>d or the world, that constitutes
the spiritual or carnal mind. To be sensualy
not having the Spirit, is characteristic of the
unconverted heart.
NoTB B. p. 10.
Whether the consciences of many professing
parents are free from the guilt incurred by £li»
must be left to the determination of the indi-
viduals concerned in the inquiry. It is certain,
that power is lodged in the hands of parents
by the great Lord of all; which is to be
employed, like every other talent, for the glory
of God and the advantage of those committed
to their care. It is to be feared that, in this
day of liberty and equality, ndther parents nor
children are duly sensible of the extent of
parental authority ; of the awful responsibility
resting on the former respecting the exercise
of it, nor of the obedience due to it by the
latter ; that the reins of domestic discipline are
APPENDIX. 97
held with too slack a hand, and are given up at
too early an age, even in professing families*
These considerations appear to the author to
involve one of the crying sins which prevail in
the religious world at the present aera, and to
threaten the most fatal consequences both to
society at large and to the church of God.
Whether many Christian parents, whose children
prove irreligious or profligate characters, may
not be implicated in their children's guilt,
by the defect of early restraint and instruction,
and especially the former, is a solemn question.
Certain it is, that the word of God has laid
doynoi a general rule on this subject, in which,
though there may be exceptions, as in other
general rules, something must be . implied ;
Tram up a child in ike way he should go : and
when he is old he will not depart from it. Prov.
xxii. 6. Even the heathens saw the importance
of education, as appears by the well-known lines
of Horace: —
Quo semel est imbuta recens, servabit odoreni
Testa diu.
On the story of £li (I Sam. ii.) Mr. Scott
II
98 APPENDIX.
makes the following Teflections : < The neglect
of properly educating children, and the indul^
gence of their wayward inclinations^ is a sin
which G^ severely chastises in his own people :
because it seems to imply a contempt of his
authority and special favour, and a disregard
to his glory, as well as to their immortal souls p
and because it tends to the most fetal abuses
and apostasies.' — Scottl^s Bible.
Note C. p. 14.
* From the account given by Moses of the
primceval state of man, it appears that he was
not left to acquire ideas in the ordinary way,
which would have been too tedious and slow, as
he was circumstanced, but was at once fqmished
with the knowledge which was necessary fov him*
He was immediately endued with the gift of
language, which necessarily supposes that he
was furnished with a stock of ideas, a specimen
of which he gave in giving names to the inferior
animals which were brought before him for that
APPENDIX. 99
purpose/'— X>r. LelandTs Advaniage and Neceu
siiyoftbe Christian Revekaiom* Vol. %, part ii^
chap. 2y p. SI.
* Language must have come by inspiratioD^
and that inspiration was necessary to give man
the faculty of speech ; to inform him that he
may have speech ; which 1 think he could no
more find out without inspiration, than cows or
hogs would think of such a fEtculty.* — Dr^
Johnson : see his Life by BoswelL Vol. 2, p. 447.
< Whatever fantastical notions some men may
advance concerning the origin of language, and
the possibility of man's gradually inventing
it by his own unassisted powefs; yet^ in fect»
not a i^ngle instance can be produced, since the
creation of the world, of any human creature's
ever using articulate sounds as the signs of
idetm; or^ tn other words, of his speaking or
hating language ; unless he was first taught it,
either immediately and at once by GU>d, as Adam
at hia formation, and the apostles on the day
of Pentecost, Acts ii, or gradually by his parents
cpr nurses*' Parkhmrsi^s Lexicon.-r^On this
soh^ect see also EUis^a Inquiry t p. 8 ; and
H 2
100 APPENDIX.
Eusebius^s Prteparat. EvangeL lib. xi. cap. 6.
—Probably < the celebrated Cadmus, who,
according to Herodotus (lib. v. cap. 57> 58),
came from Phenicia into Greece, and whose
companions introduced th^ use of the Phenician
letters into that country,' derived his name
from the Hebrew word Olp the East, whereby
the derivation of language from its true source
seems to have heea traditionally preserved.
Note D. p. 15.
* Before I conclude , it may not be
amiss to offer some directions concerning the
best method of acquiring a knowledge of the
Hebrew language, to those who have not the
benefit of a master. In the first place, then,
I would advise such persons to acquaint them-
selves with the common grammatical rules and-
inflexions (a task, which, by the assistance of
the grammar now put into their hands, ^ and>
particularly of the sheet grammar, they will, I
believe, upon trial, find, much easier than they
APPENDIX. 101
coald well have imagined) ; — then to begin
reading' the first chapter of Genesis with the
grammatical praxis (Gram. sect, xi.) ; and after
having well mastered every word in it, proceed
to the following chapters with the help of
Montanus^s inter lineary version, if they under-
stand Latin ; if not, our English translation,
with the marginal readings, will very well supply
the place. But as they advance, they should
still take care grammatically to account for
every word in the manner of the praxis, and
according either to the longer or the shorter
grammar, &c. And I can venture to assure
any person of tolerable parts and abilities,, that
lan application thus directed, of two op three
hours every day to the Hebrew language, on*
adulterated with the Rabbinical points, will, in
a few months, enable him to read in the orig-inal,
with ease and delight, most parts of those Holy
Scriptures, all of which, St. Paul assures us,
were given by inspiration of God, and are able
to make us wise unto salvation, through faith,
which is in Christ Jesus. 2 Tim. iii. 15, l6«'^—
• Preface to ParkhursVs Lexicon.
103 APPENDIX.
' Note E. p, 16.
The account which is given of Miss Elizabeth
Hutchinson, who died July 10, 1800, at the
age of 21, in a funeral sermon by the Rev.
Edward Bum, is calculated for great usefulness
among young persons ; and is therefore eamettly
recommended by the writer of these, pag^ to
their perusal. From this account the following
passage is extracted* *^ Her inquiries on the
subject of religion were those of a mind deeply
in earnest. Though vigilant to an example, in
her attention to the ordinances of public worship,
she was much in retirement ; and though exten*
sively read in the works of our best modem
divines, her principal books were her Bible and
her own heart. And here her progress was truly
astonishing. Not satisfied with an enlarged and
accurate knowledge of what may be obtained
by our English version, she applied herself to
the study of the Hebrew Scriptures ; and with
such success that, during the last two years of
her life, she read the original of the Old Testa-
APPENDIX. 103
ment) not only with eBse, but with a degree
of accuracy and cntical discernment, that would
justly be held reputable in the sacred profession.
Such was her facility and delight in this holy
study, that she abridged, at the age of sixteen,
the Hebrew Grammar and Lexicon of Park*
hurst; and during the last six months of her
illness, she compiled, and wrote out with her
own hand, a large grammar and praxis of the
sacred tongue, both of which are executed in
astyleof superior accuracy and beauty. These
were presented to her parents as tokens of filial
regard, and remain as interesting memorials of
a most ingenious and affectionate daughter."
Note F. p. 26*
The theatre is often defended, and eren
spoken of with approbation, by persons who
pretend to be friends of religion and of the
established church; who would fain have it
believed, that all objections to its amusements
are puritamad and tnethadistical. To allow this
104 APPENDIX.
would be a compliment to the puritans and
methodists, which they by no means merit ; for
it would be an acknowledgment that they only
are enemies of vice, and friends of religion, mo-
rality, and virtue. To restore a small part, at
least, of the credit which arises from a deter-
mined opposition to vice to its lawful proprietors^
the members of our church, will be an act of
justice, with which no persons can be offended
but her false friends, who have basely wrested
i^ from them. For this purpose a passage from
the words of Dr. Thomas Bray (a person to
ivhom no imputation of puritanism or methodism
can possibly be attached, and whose epistle
dedicatory testifies the highest regard to the
Church of England) will suffice. In his lectures
on the Church Catechism, when he speaks of
the baptismal vow which relates to the pomps
and vanities of this wicked world, p. 217, he
says, ** These {pomps), as they were part of the
Pagan idolatries, so they were what the primi-
tive Christians were most particularly con-
cerned to renounce. But, however, since the
fiiam^ renunciation of the pomps of this world is
APPENDIX. 105
6till retained in our church, though the very
same things which were at first meant thereby^
are perhaps become obsolete and out of use in
Christendom ; and yet it is not to be supposed,
but that our church had respect to something
still in use in the Christian world, as fit to be
renounced under that title by every disciple
of JESUS : I shall, therefore, together with a
short account of the meaning of pomps^ in the '
sense they were renounced by the primitive
Christians, take care especially to show you,
what amongst us is most analogous to the
ancient heathenish pomps, and bear such a near
resemblance to them, as to render these our
modem pomps fit also to be renounced by every
Christian.
«< By pomps were anciently meant (in the
opinion of our learned and excellent Dr. Ham-
mond) those pompous shows and spectacles
exhibited by the emperors, and great men of
Rome, in the Roman theatres, wherein multi-
tudes of captive wretches were put to slay one
another in their sword-plays, for the diversion
of the people. And, indeed^ it is not unlikely
106 APPENDIX.
that thereby may be meant, not «nly those
bloody sword-plays, but all those scenical repre*
terUatioHS and plays whatever, acted in memory
of their false gods upcHi their great fiestiyals,
which were sometimes so very lewd and impious
(for instance, those which were acted in honour
of Flora,) that the people of Rome were ashamed
to proceed in them whilst Cato, a person of
renowned virtue amongst them, was present in
the theatre. They were also wonderfully pom*
.pons and the scenes magnificent, the greatest
grandees of Rome appearing at them, and having
their seats, or boxes ^ appropriated to each order
or rank of great men, according to their degrees
and qualities. And here also very likely it was,
that the lewd crew of both sexes met together
to make their assignations ; for near to the circus
and theatre^ there were those stews, where they
withdrew to act thdr vile abominations.
<< And now, that which approaches in these
our days, nearest to those sort of heathenish
pomps, and which, in pompousness and magnifi-
cence of scene, are not much inferior to them,
are those profane and lewd plays, acted in our
APPBNPIX. 10/
public play-houses, where, for aught I know,
more souls are now murdered, than in the former
were bodies; more profaneness uttered, and
more lewd assignations made, than at the Pagan
theatres : and how infinitely unfit then is it, that
those kind of diversions should be suffered in a
Christian state, or that persons professing Chri».
tianity should be permitted to go near them ?
The primitive fathers looked on the theatres and
play-houses as no other than the devil's terrif
tones; insomuch that, it happening once that
when a Chnstian, being prompted by curiosity
to be present at the spectacles therein, was pos-
sessed by the devil, the father was not startled
at it, but readily owned, that Satan had a right
to take that person captive, whom he found
within his own precincts. And if those who
frequent our modem play-houses, do generally
return thence possessed with a spirit of pro-
faneness, lust, or vanity, it is but what may
reasonably be expected ; for though all evil
conversation is infectious, yet vice does then
most easily insinuate itself into our (lispositions,
and flies to the very heart, when the poison
108 APPENDIX.
is mixed with pleasure^ wit, and smartness
of conceit.
** And now, since it is uniyetsally agreed
amongst all serious persons, that a more irre^
ligious spirit did never reign upon any theatre,
than has in this last age in our modem play-
houses: since (as is the general complaint) in
these houses piety is so strangely ridiculed, the
holy and reverend name of God profaned, and
his glory and interest rendered so contemptible
and vile : since the youth especially of our
nation are so allured thereby into the love of,
and delight in, idleness, excessive vanity, revel-
lings, luxury, wantonness, lasciviousness, whore-^
doins, and such debaucheries, by oaths, looseness
of conversation, and corrupt atheistical princi-
ples : since our gentlemen are here taught to
deride religion, to dissolve in luxury, to abandon
themselves to their pleasures, to be debauchers
of women, to be profuse and extravagant in
their expenses, and to be entirely libertines :
since the young ladies of our nation are here
thoroughly instructed in intrigues and assig-
nations; to scoff at the prudent reservedness
APPENDIX. 109
and modesty of the best of .their sex, to despise
the best instructions of their parents and guar*
dians, to be disobedient to their authority, and,
at last, without their knowledge and consent, to
marry themselves to some loose or lewd libertine ;
and, indeed, since the minds and manners of the
great ones, especially, of both sexes, are hereby
so foully corrupted, and their affections so sadly
alienated from the love of God and goodness ;
all these things considered, it were greatly to
be wished, our playhouses were totally suppress*
ed. However, in the mean time, I think it
concerns all, that will be secure from ever apos-
tatising from the faith of Christ and a religious
life, so far to reject these our modem pomps,
as never to enter within those houses where these
plays are acted.'*
If it should be objected to this statement
of the truly excellent divine whom we have
quoted, that the vices and errors of the stage
have been corrected since the sera of Dr. Bray ;
the objection may be confronted by a reference
to almost every popular theatrical performance
of the present day, and by proofs adduced
no APPENDIX.
therefrDin that the modera dramas have a direct
tendency to produce the flame awful effects,
which Dr. Bray attributes to those of the last
century* Nay, it may be demonstrated that
the stage can never cease to be a school of vice ;
for were nothing exhibited thereon that is con«
genial to the corrupt inclinations of the depraved
heart of man, it would attract no spectators,
and could not be supported. If an attoddmice
on the amusements of the theatre be not an
explicit and positive breach of the bi^ismal vow,
it will be difficult to prove that it can be broken
at all. See also Milner^s History of the Ckurch
of Christ, voL i. p. 463, &c.
Note G. p. 33.
^ It is impossible to advert to the present
state of female manners, without noticing a still
more melancholy proof of the decay of those
feeling^ which are the grand bulwarks of female
virtue, than even a growing indifference to the
character of those who are admitted into the'
APPENDIX. IJl
parties of fa^ionable life: I mean the indecent
modes of dress, which are becoming more and
more prevalent among women of all classes.
These modes, and indeed the whole style of
modem female dress, were evidently invented
for the purpose of exciting sensuality and of
inflaming passions that stand in the greatest
need of restraint; but they have been adopted
by women who lay claim to unsullied reputa^
tion, and by them transmitted to the lowest
ranks of female society, with a rapidity of
communication, which affords a most striking
instance of the contagion of bad example* The
prevalence of such a fashion in those ranks,
where it can be but little counteracted by
education or reflection, must inevitably prove
an inexhaustible source of prostitution and
debauchery ; — a consideration which ought
surely to induce every woman, who has the least
regard for her sex, to exert all her authority,
and all her influence;, in discountenancing a
practice which leads to such direful conse*
quences. TUs scandalous violation of the kwa
of decency, on th« part of those whose duty it
112 APPENDIX.
was to be the guardians of those laws, has
already, in many instances, been followed by a
severe, though it must be owned, a just punish-
ment; with a punishment which, however just,
is calculated to wound the tenderest feelings
of our nature. Many women who, a little while
since, shone forth among the loveliest of their
sex, are now dressed in their shrouds, because,
in an evil hour, they laid aside those parts
of their apparel, which health, as well as de-
cency, forbade them to relinquish. What must
be the emotions of those parents, and of those
husbands, who have been thus bereft of their
dearest comforts, which a little seasonable and
kind admonition might have still preserved!
A very moderate degree of reflection, indeed,
without the aid of admonition, should be more
than sufficient to prevent the adoption of so
baneful a fashion. What woman, having any
claim to character, would suffer herself to trans^
gress the laws of decency, if she considered for
a single moment, how cheap she thereby renders
herself in the eyes of the other sex ? The female
who makes an improper display of her person^
APPENDIX. 113
iDay become an object of transient desire^ but
forfeits all title to respect. The man of sense,
who is ever the friend of decency (for never was
a maxim more true, than that which represents
a want of decency as a want of sense) looks
upon such a woman as a disgrace to her sex»
Nay 9 the shallow superficial coxcomb has sense
enough to. discover her unfitness for the sacred
duties of conjugal life; and to know that
decency is the least pledge that a woman can
give for chastity. Even the licentious admira-*
ration which the profligate libertine pays to her
charms, is mingled with secret contempt; and
he talks of her among his dissolute companions,
with a grossness of familiarity, the very idea
of which would raise in her cheeks the glow
of indignation, if it did not suffuse them with
the blush of modesty.
^^ Does the degraded female console herself^
for such mortifications, by the reflection that
she has not sacrificed her virtue? Does she
think her conduct and character irreproachable,
because, in the ordinary sense of the word, she
has preserved her chastity ? Alas ! what erro-*
I
t
114 APPENDIX.
neous ideas has she formed of female chastity I
To abstain from the grossness of vice, is th^
least, though an indispensable, part of this most?
important of virtues. This divine principle i»
seated in the mind ; it is enthroned in the hearty
and there maintains a sovereign sway, not only
over the external deportment, but over the
hidden thoughts and inmost feelings. These
thoughts and feelings are not within the reach
of human observation; and consequently it
cannot always be ascertained, whether the claims
of any particular woman to chastity be unim*-
peachable ; or whether they be founded merely
in that counterfeit quality, the very e»stence
of which depends on the want of opportunity
to indulge the licentious passions, without in-
convenience or danger of discovery. But
though it be difficult to pronounce, with cer-
tainty, on this delicate question, it is easy to
come to a fair decision upon it. Genuine chastity
— that is, the chastity of the heart and of the
mind — has some characteristics with which it
never fails to be accompanied. Of those cha-
racteristics, the most indubitable, as well as the
APPENDIX. 115
most indispensable, is that nice and extreme
sensibility, which instinctively shrinks from
whatever can give the smallest offence to the
most refined delicacy : and which acts as the
vigilant centinel — the jealous guardian — not
only of the citadel itself, but of the remotest
outworks of female chastity. What then shall
be said of those women, who, instead of dis-
playing any symptoms of those delicate feelings,
set decency itself at defiance, and prove them-
selves to be destitute of all sense of shame?
How dare she claim to be considered as vir-
tuous, who gives the most glaring proof that
she is not even a modest woman ? That this is
a just description of the fashionable females
of the present day, no one, who is witness to
itbe indecent exposure which they make of their
persons, can pretend to dispute. So scanda-
lously indecent is that exposure, that to j udge
from appearances, virtuous women seem now to
have less modesty, than belonged to the prosti-
tutes of former times. Justice, however, requires
a distinction between the blooming but unfor-
tunate maid, whose native blushes are over-
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116 APPENDIX.
powered by the influence and example of a
venal mother : and the chaste matron, who» by
a wanton exhibition of her person, shows that
she is incapable of a blush» The former is an
object of compassion; and still more so than
she would be, if her life were to become a
sacrifice to the brutal rage of her from whom
she recdved it. The latter dbplays the female
character in the most odious form which it is
capable of assuming. She is even more odious
and detestable on account of her pretensions to
chastity. The monstrous and unnatuml alli-
ance, which she endeavours to establish between
virtue and helplessness, tends not only to bring
the former into contempt, but to endanger its
very existence, by depriving it of its natural
and necessary defence. Compared with such
a woman, the female who has fallen a victim to
temptation, and who hides herself in retirement
from the disgrace which she can never wipe
away, is an object of commiseration. — Nay,
compared with such a woman, the bold and
abandoned profligate, who, with dauntless eflVon-
tery, appears publicly in her true character,
APPENDIX. • 117
is less disgraceful to her sex, and Fess injurious
to society."
The above quotation (the importance of which
must apologize for its length) is taken from a
pamphlet, intituled. Remarks on Modem Fenude
Manners^ as distinguished by indifference to
characteTy and indecency cf dress : extracted
from ** Reflections, Political and Moral, at the
Conclusion of the War : by John Bowles, Esq J**
Octavo, price 6d. Rivingtons, 1802. As a fur-
ther recommendation of this tract to public
notice, the just praise bestowed on it in the
British Critic is added for the reader^s perusal.
*^ This is a striking extract from a work which
we have formerly praised, on the female modesty
so little consulted in the present feshionable
modes of dress. The influence of the female
character on the great interests of society, is
here ably displayed; and the British fair are
reminded into what degradation they plunge
themselves, by condescending to adopt the
appearance of wantons. That which has most
surprised us, on many occasions, is, that parents
themselves of strict characters, should su£Eer
118 APPENDIX.
their nnthinkiDg daughters, even in their pre-
sence, to make an appearance which they surely
cannot contemplate without a blush*'* — British
Critic for October, 1802.
From the above citation, it appears that the
politician and moralist concur with the theo-
logian in reprobating the corruption of the
present eera*
Note H. p. 34.
It may be remarked, that no notice has been
taken of the extravagance in the expenditure
of money which prevails, respecting dress, fur-i-
niture, and other things, in the present day*
The silence which is observed in the dialogue
on this subject arose, not from the infrequency
or innocence of profuse and luxurious habits,
of which the gratification of pride and vanity is
the aim ; but from the multiplicity' of other
objects which demanded censure. It will not,
however, be improper to observe, that this kind
of vanity is as much a breach of our baptismal
APPENPIX. 119
TOW, as any other instance of it which has been
specified; and that it is, moreover, a breach
of more than one commandment* It is a trans-
gression of the first, since it is a surrender of
the heart to the world» which Jehovah claims as
wholly his own. Of the sixth ; as thereby we
withhold from our poor neighbour^ that which
might contribute to the comfort of his life, or
even save him from perishing by cold or hunger,
and so become accessaries to his death; while
nerther our necessities nor our accommodations
demand the surplusage we desecrate to the pomps
of the world. Of the eighth ; since we thereby
unjustly alienate from the poor that which is their
due, the superfluities of our income not being
ours, but theirs. It would be easy to show, by
a just deduction of consequences, that several
other commandments are infringed by profuse**
ness in the expenditure of our money, und that
the whole second table of the law is thereby
violated ; since it requires us to <io unto otherSp
as we would they should do unto us. Bishop
Beveridge, in the resolutions be formed foi:
the conduct of his life, writes thus : '' I am
120 APPENDIX.
resolved, by the divine grace, to employ my
riches, the outward blessings of Providence, to
the same end (the glory and service of my great
Creator) ; and to observe such a due medium
in the dispensing of them, as to avoid prodi-
gality on the one hand, and covetousness on the
other. — This, without doubt, is a necessary reso-
lution, but it is likewise very difficult to put in
practice, without a careful observance of the
following rules : Firsty Never to lavish out my
substance, like the prodigal, in the revels of sin
and vanity, but after a due provision for the
necessities and conveniences of life, to lay up
the overplus for the acts of love and charity
toward my indigent brethren. I must consider
the uses and ends for which God has intrusted
me with such and such possessions ; that they
were not given me for the pampering my body,
the feeding my lusts, or puffing me up with
pride and ambition ; but for advancing its
glory, to my own and the public good. But
why do I say given ? When, as I have before
observed, I have no propriety in the riches I
possess : they are only lent me for a few years,
APPENDIX. 121
to be dispensed and distributed as my great
Lord and Master sees fit to appoint ; viz, for
the benefit of the poor and necessitous, which he
has made his deputies to call for and receive
his money at my hands. And this, indeed, is
the best use I can put it to, for my own advan-
tage, as well as theirs : for the money I bestow
upon the poor, I give to God to lay up for me,
and I have his infallible word and promise for
it, that it shall be paid me again with unlimited
interest, out of his heavenly treasure, which is
infinite, eternal, and inexhaustible. Hence it is,
that, whensoever I see any fit object of charity,
methinks I hear the Most High say to me, Give
this poor brother so much of my stock, which
thou hast in thy hand, and I will place it to
thy account as given to myself; and look what
thou layest out^ and it shall be paid thee again,
«* The second rule is never to spend a penny,
where it can be better spared ; nor to spare it
where it can be better spent. And this will
oblige me whensoever any occasion offers of
laying out money, considerately to weigh the
circumstances of it, and according as the matter
123 APPENDIX.
upon mature deliberation requires, I must not
grudge to spend it ; or if at any time 1 find
more reason to spare, I must not dare to spend
it; still remembering that, as I am strictly to
account for the money Grod has given me, so
I ought neither to be covetous in saving, nor
profuse in throwing it away without a just occa-
sion. The main thing to be regarded is the
end I propose to myself in my expences ; whether
it be really the glory of God, or my own carnal
humour and appetite. For instance, if 1 lay
out money in clothing my body, the question
must be, whether I do this only for warmth and
decency, or to gratify my pride and vanity?
If the former, my money is better spent ; if the
latter, it is better spared than spent. Again-^
do I lay it out in eating and drinking ? If this
be only to satisfy the necessities of nature, and
make my life the more easy and comfortable,
it is, without doubt, very well spent ; but if it
be to feed my luxury and intemperance, it is
much better spared ; better for my soul in
keeping it from sin, and better for my body in
preserving it from sickness*"
▲PPENDIX. 123
Note I. p. 36. *
CoL iii. 5. Psalm x. 3. << Every species of
gaming originates from an undue desire and
hope of increasing wealth by proportionably
impoverislung other men; and is therefore a
direct violation of this lavr," viz. the 10th
Commandment* ^* Public gaming, by lotteries,
so far from being less criminal than other species
of that vice, is the worst of them all : for it
abets and sanctions, so far as example and con-
currence can do it, the practice that opens a
door to every species of fraud and villany ; that
is pregnant with the most extensive evils to the
community and to individuals, &c«" — ScoWs
Essays^ p. 59*
Note K. p. 37.
The too frequent and more terrible efifects
of gaming, such as enmity, malice, duelling,
murder, suicide, and the reduction of flourishing
^milies to poverty, have been purposely omitted
124 APPENDIX.
in the dialogue; because these hornd conse-
quences will be said to result only from hazard-
ing large sums, which the more sober amateurs
of cards will concur in condemning. These^
however, strongly enforce the propriety of our
Lord's affectionate caution, as applicable to the
case before us. Watch and pray^ that ye enter
not into temptation. Hazael resented the pro-
phetic intimation, that he would be the mur-
derer of his master, &c. ; and indignantly asked,
Is thy servant a dog that he thould do this
thing ? Yet, although he thought himself abso-
lutely incapable of perpetrating so atrocious an
action, and was confident of his own integrity ;
by yielding to the first emotions of ambition, he
actually became guilty of this enormous crime.
(See 2 Kings, viii. 12, 13, 15.) When a round
body is set in motion on a declivity, no one can
be certain that it will stop, till it arrives at the
bottom. Now the way of sin is a declivity;
not indeed precipitous or perpendicular, but a
gradual descent: the mind of man is corrupt,
and under the influence of a powerful attraction
to the very nadir of criminality; and when it
APPENDIX. 125
has yielded to the first sblicitation to the prac->
tice of sin, its progress therein is natural and
unavoidable) if unchecked by extrinsical re-
straint. Principiis oBSTAy Nip sin in the hud,
is a maxim, which, though it flowed from the
pen of a heathen, is worthy of being written in
letters of gold ; and, enforced by the pen of
inspiration, 1 Thess. v. 22, should be inscribed
on every Christian's heart.
Note L. p. 41.
The exhortations, which are to be found iit
Scripture, to an imitation of Christ and of his
apostles, are so numerous, as to make a par-
ticular reference to them unnecessary. Why do
Christians bear his sacred name : why are they
termed his disciples and followers ; but because
they are supposed to be imitators of his example ?
See 1 John ii. 6. John viii. 12. 1 Cor. xi. 1.
Matt. xix. 28. Rev. xiv. 4. ** No one can
fail to see that the life of Christ was designed
as a pattern for his followers, who considers how
196 APPENDIX.
admirably it is calculated for that purpose.-^
Aiid should We not find it the best compendium
of morality, the most perfect and unerring rule
whereby to direct ourselves tit aU caseSy if we
would only ask our own hearts before we enter
on an action, how the blessed Jesus would
behave in our circumstances? A conscience
but moderately informed from the Gospel would
seldom, perhaps, give a wrong determination*
But the truth is, we are afraid of the answer ;
and therefore dare not ask the question."
Bp. Home's Sixteen Sermons, vol. 1, p. 9, 10.
— ** Let the whole world go whither it will,
I am resolved to walk in the steps that my
Saviour went in before me : I shall endeavour,
in all places I come into, in all companies I con-
verse with, in all duties I undertake, in all the
miseries I undergo, still to behave myself as my
Saviour would do, was He in my place. So that
wheresoever I am, or whatsoever I am about,
I shall still put the question to myself. Would
my Saviour go hither ? Would be .do this or
that? &c." Bp. Beveridge^s Private Thoughts,
; — Leaving our Divine Master out of the ques^
APPENDIX. J 27
tion, in order to avoid the crime of blasphemy ;
to paint St. Paul or St. John as engaged in
either of the innocent amusements which ^are
censured in the Dialogues, would be too ridicu-
lous to be borne, and would expose the painter
to contempt, if not to a charge of profaneness.
The charge of novelty, or unnecessary pre-
ciseness, which may be adduced against the
opinions stated in the Dialogue (though of no
moment whatever) will be fully obviated by the
75th canon of our church ; from which it is evident
that the sentiments of our excellent Reformers
concurred with those which are here adopted.
For theran ministers are strictly prohibited,
under the sanction of severe ecclesiastical cen-
sures, to spend their time idly, h/ day or by
night, playing at dice, cards, or tables, or amy
o/Aer UNLAWFUL game. In the opinion there-
fore of our Church, Dice, cards, and tables, are
unlawjul games, and an idle mode (comp. Matt,
xii. 36.) of spending time. And whereas, by
abstaining from these unlawful things, the clergy
are exhorted, at the close of the same canon, to
be examples to the people to H^ well and Chris^
128 APPENDIX.
tianly ; it is plain that our church does not con-'
sider that layman as living well and Christianlj/,
who does not abstain from them. The canon
indeed is grown old and gray-headed ; and the
prescribed ecclesiastical censures are not inflicted
with severity ; nor indeed at all, according to
the qualities of these offences. But the qualities
of these offences continue the same ; for if these
things were unlawful, when the canon was made,
they are unlawful still. If the founders of our
church are deemed enthusiasts, the author would
say to each individual of their corps. Tecum
vivere amem^ tecum obeam libens.
It is not to be expected that the considerations
which are suggested in these pages, will have
any weight with those persons whose consciences
are not under the influence of the Divine word ;
and who, of consequence, have no concern
whether their conduct be regulated by it or not.
But it is hoped, that they will be tried at the
bar of calm reason, and also be weighed in the
balance of the Sanctuary, by all those persons,
who wish to adorn the doctrine of God their
Saviour in all things.
APPENDIX. 129
Note M. p. 43.
< Shall I grudge to spend my life for him,
who did not grudge to spend his own blood for
me ? Shall not I so live that he may be glorified
on earth, who died that I may be glorified in
heaven.^ Especially considering, that if my
whole life could be sublimated into holiness,
and moulded into an exact conformity to the
will of the Most High, I should be happy be-
yond expression. O ! what a heaven should
I then live on earth ! What ravishments of love
and joy would my soul continually be possessed
with ? Well, I' am resolved, by the grace of
God, to try. And to that end do, this morning,
wholly sequester and set myself apart for GOD,
resolving, by the assistance of his grace^ to
make all and every thought, word, and action,
to pay their tribute unto him. Let this man
mind his profit, a second his pleasures, a third
his honours, a fourth himself, and all their sins;
I am resolved to mind and serve my Grod, so as
to make him the alpha and omega^ the first and
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130 APPENDIX.
the last, of my whole life.' Beveridge^s Pri-
vate Thoughts.
Note N. p. 44.
* Methodist is the present term for one who
has too much vital and practical Christianity
for the bulk of professed Christians, and of
course for the world at large ; and I shall affirm,
without fear, that whatever be the rank, talents,
and general respectability of such a one-^how^
^vet* steUdy and consistent his attachment and
cohfdtmity to the established church — however
free ftom eccentricity and irregularity in his
walk*'— yet let him be in earnest and in actian
as a Christian, and he shall be a proof oi my
retnark.
** F<Bnum kabet in cornu, Umg^fuge. — *'
* Some, indeed, have thought that by a nice
adjustment of the phrases, habits, and con>-
nections, they might maintain the truths and yet
escape the ferm. I pity from my heart an honest
nrnn making such fruitless attempts. He is
APPENDIX. 131
another Sisyphus.' — He may be wise, but he is
not wise enough : he does not see that as far as
he is of the tvorld, the world will love its own,
and no further/ Must he» however, from con-
science enter his protest ? Let him do it in
God's name ; but let him know that, as far as
he does it in simpliciti/ and godly sincerity, the
world will come forward with thdrs.' CedVs
lAfe of Cadogan, p. 30.
Mr. Cecil afterwards very propei'ly distin-
guishes those persons, who, in spite of the
warmest attachment and strictest conformity to
the doctrine and discipline of the established
church, are:branded with the name of Methodist;
from others who, ;to use the terse description
of Mr* Jones, in bis life of the late bishop of
Norwich, maintain Christian godliness, without
Christian order* With the former may the
author be numbered both in life and. death ! ! !
' * Optat mpremo coUocare Sisyphus
In monte scumm .* sed vetant leges Jovis*
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132 APPENDIX.
Note O. p. 51.
'< In a due sense of the vanities and follies of
my younger years, I desire to take shame to
myself for what is past ; and do, this morning,
humbly prostrate myself before the throne of
grace, to implore God*s pardon, and to make
solemn promises and resolutions for the future,
to cast off the works of darkness^ and to piU on
the armour of Ix^ht ; and not only so, but to
redeem the precious minutes I have squandered
away, by husbanding those that remain to the
best advantage. I will not trifle and sin afway
my time in the pleasures of sense, 'or the imper-
tinences of business ; but shall always employ
it in things that are necessary or useful, and
proportion it to the weight and importance of
the work or business I engage myself in ; allot-
ting such a part of it for this business, and such
a part for that, so as to leave no intervals for
unlawful or unnecessary actions to thrust them-
selves in, and pollute my life and conversation."
Bishop Beveridge^s Private Thoughts,
APPENDIX. 133
Note P. p. 64.
Rom. vi. 13. — Every reader of these pages,
whose mind is open to the admission of truth,
will perceive, that most of the arguments therein
adduced are equally conclusive against the per-
nicious practice of novel -reading as any other
worldly amusement. Let the experiment be
made by their application to this growing and
destructive evil, whether their effect will not
resemble that which is attributed by Milton to
Ithuriel*8 spear. As the influence of novels on
the heart corresponds exactly with the design
-of the great deceiver of mankind, described in
the passage above alluded to, that passage is laid
before the reader, that he may himself draw the
parallel. Speaking of the discovery of Satan in
Adam's bower by two angelic guards, the poet
says : —
" Him there they found
Squat like a toad^ close at the ear of Eve,
Assaying by his dev'lish art to reach
The organs of her fancy, and with them forge
Illusions as he list, phantasms and dreams, ,
134 APPENDIX.
Or if, inspiring venom, he might taint
Th' animal spirits that from pure blood arise
Like gentle breaths from rivers pure, thence raise
At least distemper'd, discontented thoughts.
Vain hopes, vain aims, immoderate desires.
Blown up with high conceits engend'ring pride.
Him thus intent, Ithuriel with his spear
Touch'd lightly ; for no falsehood can endure
Touch of celestial temper, "but returns
Of force to its own likeness : \)p he starts
Discover'd and surprised. As when a spark
Lights on a heap of nitrous powder, laid
Fit for the tun some magazine to store
Against a rumour'd war, the smutty grain
With sudden bla2e diffus'd inflam^ the air.
So started up in his own shape the fiend."
Paradise Lost, book iv.
In common with the other degrading diver-
'sions which have been reprobated, the practice
of reading novels is a waste of -precidus time
given us for far different purposes ; it inflames
the passions; corrupts the heart; tends to
alienate the affections from divine things, and
to set them on things beneath. The author
scruples not to avow his full conviction, that no
one, whose mind is spiritually disposed, can
relish such an enployment ; and that no parents,
APPENDIX. 135
whose consciences ate reflated by the 'Word
of God, and who are at aill concerned for the
eternail welfkre of those who are <50fnmitt6d to
their charge, can suffer their children to indulge
themselves therein. This practii^e, independent
of its irreligious tendency, -is ^hostile to all tem-
poral improvement and c<jimfo^t; fdt it unfits
the mind for all useful redding, and disqualifies
it for the sober bii^ness lind stlti6factions<6f life.
For the confitlEiidtion c^f these sentidi^tits, the
author refers to a lettei- Oh Novels, iikila^ 11th
volume of the W4drks of the Rev. WiUiam Jones,
p. 234, from which the following extmdt i» mude :
"It were well if the reading of novels were
nothing worse than the loss of time and mbpey,
though this is bad enough ; but young people
will not escape so ; it has generally a* bad effect
upon the mind ; and, iu soiHe instances, a fatal
eifect upon the morals and fortune. In novels,
plays, «md romances, (for thefy huve dl thesatne
gi^eral object, which is ^wittsdmeniy gdod Atfd
evil are disguised by fake colourings and unjuist
representations. The end is, to please: and
how is this end to be obtained? Nothing will
136 APPENDIX.
please loose people but intrigues and loose ad-
ventures ; nothing will please the unlettered
profligate but blasphemous sneers upon religion
and the Holy Scriptures ; nothing will please
the vicious but the palliation of vice and the
contempt of virtue : therefore novellists and
comic writers, who study popularity either for
praise or profit, mix up vice with amiable qua-
lities to cover and recommend it, while virtue
is compounded with such ingredients as have a
natural tendency to make it odious."
The same general observation may be made
concerning novels, which has already been made
respecting the playhouse, that they must be
corrupt in order to be palatable*
NoTB Q. p. 76.
<< A man wickedly and sinfully tempts him-
self when by presuming on his own strength
he unnecessarily runs into danger, and ventures
upon the next occasion of sinning ; for this is
to come within the deviPs purlieus, and if any
APPENDIX. 137
such be made his prey, they must thank their
own venturousness and folly. We tempt our-
selves to the commission of those sins, which we
beforehand know such company, or such em-
ployments, or such like circumstances will
prompt us to commit.
" We find the propensities of our wicked
hearts strongly bent towards sin at all times,
even then when we have no external objects
propounded to excite them; but when these
inward inclinations do meet with outward enr
forcements, as alluring objects, fit opportunities,
,strong persuasions from others, inducing ex-
amples, or the like ; the temptation then grows
headstrong and wild to purpose ; and if grace
doth not rein it in with a hard hand, it will
certainly hurry us into the commission of that
sin which hath so many advantages to commend
it to the soul.*' Bishop Hopkins on the Lord's
PraycTj p. 1331 The works of this right reve-
rend author are a rich treasury of divine know^
ledge, and are strongly recommended to the
reader's attention. They have been reprinted
in four vols. 8vo.
138 APPENDIX.
Note R, p, 79,
1 Pet. iv. 2. Archbishop Leigh ton, speaking
of conversion in his commentary on this passage,
says, *< Half-reformations in a Christian turn
to his prejudice ; it is only best to be thoroughly
reformed, and to give up with all idols ; not to
live one half to himself and the world, and, as
it were, another half to God ; for ihat is but
falsely so, and in reality it cannot be. The
only way is to make a. heap of all, to have all
sacrificed together, and to live ^o no lust, but
altogether and only to God. Thus it must be.
There is no monster in the new creation, no
half new creature, either all or not at all, ok$q f}
(Ayi oXft^^." If this extract should recommend
the admirable work from which it is taken to
the attention of any one, the recommendation
will afibrd him a solid ground -of thankfulness
to God for these pages, even though he should
meet with nothing in them beside that is worth
the trouble of a refusal.
APPENDIX. 139
Note S. p. 83.
<< Man is that link in the chain of being which
connects the animal with the angelic nature.
Compounded of both natures, he is capable,
in his present state, of pleasure suited to both.
It would be absurd, therefore, we grant, to deny
him those of the animal kind under their proper
regulations ; but how much more absurd (even
by how much the joys of an angel must be
supposed superior to those of a brute) to refuse
him such as are spiritual ? That men .should
practically esteem the former better than the
latter, is a sad proof of the corruption of the
human heart; that they should coolly plead
for the unjust decision, and thus mistake tbdr
degradation for their privilege and their interest,
demonstrates that» in the fall of ni9n, the head
has suffered equally with the heart.*' Christian
Observer, vol. ii. p. 13.
140 APPENDIX.
Note T. p. 89.
** Sin universally prevails ; and, except where
it greatly interferes with the welfare of society,
is countenanced and approved. The customs
of .the world sanction the practice of it to a
certain extent in every one, whether male or
female ; though the greater latitude of indul-
gence is allowed to men. The very education
that is given both to our sons and daughters
tends only to foster in them pride ^nd vanity,
wantonness and sensuality, worldliness and pro-
faneness; let but these dispositions assume the
names of ease, elegance, and gaiety, and they
instantly lose all their malignant qualities ; and,
instead of exciting our abhorrence, endear to
us the persons by whom they are indulged.*'
Simeon* s Helps, vol. ii. p. 624.
THE END.
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